Great Site-How or Should It Be Broadened

[OldSchoolPlayer25]

This is crazy, we have FINE ASS women, posting to BtoW.net, who are honest and love Brothers for NSA, No Holds Barred Sex..How the hell do we get White Girls, who really want Black Men, to be honest and post at site for real hookups, not fake (romantic *******) hookups, but provide details on themselves, like Match.com..there are a couple of IR dating sites, but they all were either fakes (looking for LTR or Sugar Daddy), or loaded down with sistas, trying to find white guys for BS hookups..there is a demand and need for some sort of mechanism to broaden the appeal of a site like this..So many sites are pay for pics and webcam *******, CL is the bottom of the barrel women, Adult Friend Finder scams cc info with marginal chicks posting for webcam..I see women here (Older (38-55), Middle to Upper Income, in NC who are curious as hell, want to talk, but reluctant due to social barriers..B2W.net really is leading us all to more
IR lifestyles, and open adult relationships..would appreciate responses..OSP25

 

[nocomp2bm]

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[Jack Smith]

Seems to me those you're calling "fake" OSP are simply people looking for something different than you are. I doubt there will ever be a site that has only the particular type of person and no one else ... unless you create it yourself and serve as gatekeeper.

Of course, there will always be some fakers. It's the internet after all. IMO they're pretty easy to spot or at least easy to flush out before you go too far with them. We haven't had that much trouble doing that though they have wasted our time.

(That's why we mostly go to hosted private parties now ... eliminates that problem altogether.)

This site is clearly for "blacktowhite" hookups. Within that category, a lot of us ARE looking for longer term encounters. That doesn't make us fake. My girl and I have certain ... preferences shall we say ... and when we've found a guy or couple that shares our particular brand of erotic play we've tended to seek multiple rendezvous with them. Others on here are looking for romance I'm sure. I'd submit that neither of those are fake. They're just different than what you're looking for.

I hope you don't take this wrong. I do understand your frustration. Perhaps a more detailed set of forums would yield the separation and clarity you seek.

 

[OldSchoolPlayer25]

Seems to me those you're calling "fake" OSP are simply people looking for something different than you are. I doubt there will ever be a site that has only the particular type of person and no one else ... unless you create it yourself and serve as gatekeeper.

Of course, there will always be some fakers. It's the internet after all. IMO they're pretty easy to spot or at least easy to flush out before you go too far with them. We haven't had that much trouble doing that though they have wasted our time.

(That's why we mostly go to hosted private parties now ... eliminates that problem altogether.)

This site is clearly for "blacktowhite" hookups. Within that category, a lot of us ARE looking for longer term encounters. That doesn't make us fake. My girl and I have certain ... preferences shall we say ... and when we've found a guy or couple that shares our particular brand of erotic play we've tended to seek multiple rendezvous with them. Others on here are looking for romance I'm sure. I'd submit that neither of those are fake. They're just different than what you're looking for.

I hope you don't take this wrong. I do understand your frustration. Perhaps a more detailed set of forums would yield the separation and clarity you seek.

thanx ..a most excellent response..you are right..I am just feeling my way on the site..one suggestion an IR dating site..tried it, but didn't work for me..sorry for using FAKE as a phrase, you are right just because they are looking for an IR hookup and not a full blown lifestyle does't make them fakes..a way to segment would help..thanx for your response, hope to hear more from you..OSP25

 

[OldSchoolPlayer25]

Hey..
I got a few features I would love to see on this site...
1) in the "couples and women seeking" or "black men seeking" sections, you can add a column for City/State/Country. That way, it is easy to sort/search based on area. Also an "available till" date field would be nice since I notice a few members are travelling and would only be in an area for a few days.
2) On the home page posts, it would be nice if the post author name links to their profile, so users can directly go to their profile rather than having to search in the "members" section for the user by name.
3) Another cool feature would be to alert a user whenever a new member close to him/her signs up or posts an article in the seeking section.

Just my 2¢

thanx bbc4ugurl, your ideas are really on target..segmenting out the preferences would help and broaden it's appeal for IR adult fun..another member reminded me because some folks want a IR hookup and maybe not a full blown lifestyle would appreciate the ideas you presented..hope the moderators see your comments and consider..well done and appreciated (plus you can write)..thanx OSP25

 

[Jack Smith]

1) in the "couples and women seeking" or "black men seeking" sections, you can add a column for City/State/Country. That way, it is easy to sort/search based on area. Also an "available till" date field would be nice since I notice a few members are travelling and would only be in an area for a few days.

Good idea. I'd also like to see that area further broken down into what people are seeking. We're a couple seeking ... but that doesn't even begin to help someone know if we're right for them. A section for people that host, people that travel, people in the east, in the west, people into D/s, people into other things. If there were subcatgories under "couples seeking" the site would be more useful ... leading to more ... fucking!

 

[the root]

This is a very interesting thread......this site definitely needs to be broadened.......how to go about it.....I'm not sure, but one thing for sure is to put a fantasy section or tease section and a real hook-up section......that way for the people who want to fantasize they have a place to go and stop playing games with us who really are looking to hook -up and that way we'll all be with like minded individuals and it might cut down on all the guys posing as girls and the wives who only really want compliments for their pics and focus on those of us who really want to have adult fun.
Its a quandry for sure, but I think if we all put in suggestions we can really get this site to be what it was intended for ........real adults trying to get together for a good time.

 

[OldSchoolPlayer25]

This is a very interesting thread......this site definitely needs to be broadened.......how to go about it.....I'm not sure, but one thing for sure is to put a fantasy section or tease section and a real hook-up section......that way for the people who want to fantasize they have a place to go and stop playing games with us who really are looking to hook -up and that way we'll all be with like minded individuals and it might cut down on all the guys posing as girls and the wives who only really want compliments for their pics and focus on those of us who really want to have adult fun.
Its a quandry for sure, but I think if we all put in suggestions we can really get this site to be what it was intended for ........real adults trying to get together for a good time.

thanx Root..your opinion is very much valued..I am really impressed with the fun, sharp and yet mature folks on this site..
the amateur aspect particularly of the women is much bigger turn on, then the pro porn girls..I like the honesty of the women, not the BS that they throw up at Match, IRDatingCentral etc..yea lets have Adult Fun and hookup not all that BS about finding love..another poster-Jack Smith-gave some good ideas..hope the moderators are listening..thanx..OSP25..how about name 'Brotherhood of Brethen and Concubines'..what ya think

 

[the root]

Thats a pretty good name, or we could go with the brotherhood of black cream, lol.....I'm just kidding, your names cool, and it's good to see someone trying to get a broader aspect of this site.....it has so much potential to be so much more......I think if we can just pool these ideas together we just might make a difference, kudos OSP25, good to know your out there trying to make it better for all of us, fa real!!!!

 

[Jack Smith]

Yes, definitely. Clearer sections for erotic fantasy vs seeking in-person hook-ups. The section headings could be improved. We have the story section here now and it's good. I use it myself tell erotic stories. I enjoy posting a picture and writing a short story about it.

But I also want to be able to get to know people for real. That's the area I find to be out of control. Too many people who aren't who they say they are. Not sure what to do about that. More section heading choices would be a good start.