Hello, We are in Grand Rapids MI. My girlfriend is a tall thin redhead and has been increasingly talking about and masturbating to BBC. She never did before and now that's all that she mentions about sex, liking in black and big. It's also what all of her porn that she watches is now. I need some help with getting her to decide to go black. I even have sexy lingerie for when it happens the first time. Can anyone help? I don't want her to know that I am pushing her to do it, kinda get her to do it her self.