The only thing better than good sex is great sex. I can honestly say I have never had bad sex, however I have had some that was LOT better than most I prefer long term relationship for couple of reasons. It takes more than one encounter to learn what curls a woman's toes. The other is STD's. As much as I would like to fuck any willing female, any place, any time the reality is that about a quarter of the population has some type of a chronic STD. Herpes is the most prevalent and HIV is not restricted to gay males I belong to a group. Most of us are over 40 and we all agree to restrict out activities to the group. We all get checked out a couple of times a year. Plus there are enough members to the group to satisfy any reasonable desire of a member. The security is a major factor at least for me. If you are worrying about STD's, being caught or dealing with a crazy person it is hard to really let go and enjoy yourself. Personally my biggest turn on is a petite redhead. Nothing gets me harder quicker. I don't smoke or do drugs so some conversation between rounds is nice so I like an intelligent well read woman. This type of woman is also likely to understand her body and her needs and my body and my needs. Sex is ALWAYS better when both people are doing their best best to pleasure each other. I tend to be dominant in bed but I do enjoy a woman that can take charge and ride me cowgirl. I have a petite little redhead that I wouldn't mind seeing more often and she is voracious in bed. When she wants it she can engulf me at will. It is a major turn on watch her buck, scream and squeal while she has her way with me. I dislike and don't tolerate abusive behavior or name calling. Most black's in this country are descended from slaves. Those slaves were typically called by derogatory names and were mistreated. I have no desire to act like those slave owners did. I am much better than that, I also don't tolerate being called names. And I don't call other derogatory names. I understand that for some people that is a turn on and if the participants all agree then that's their business, but not in my bed.