I had been talking with my girlfriend for the past couple months about the idea of having some sexy fun with a BBC. She told me simply, she just isn't comfortable with it right now but might be in the future. Im not exactly devastated that she's not dying to fuck another guy, but I was hoping she would be a little more into it. At the same time I'm encouraged that she's open to the idea later on. It seems couples are more into this life in their 30's and were still in our 20's. Would still love to chat with bulls/couples about this life and some things I can do to push this along slowly without being overly aggressive about it.