From a woman's point of view, it's the same, it depends on how good the date was, firstly how good was the date itself depicts whether or not i would go any further on the first date, and secondly "presuming all was good" it would depend on how good the sex was as to whether we meet up again or not, One major difference between men and women is the way we approach potential sexual encounters, Men (on the whole ) are happy being attracted to you, whereas women (again on the whole) need to like a guy as a person as well as find them attractive, it's just the way we are. when a woman goes out on a date she is also thinking about the possibility of having sex but if she decides not to have sex with you it's because she either didn't like you as a person or did not find you attractive. "please note that i am using meeting people over the internet as an example here, general dating is completely different".