From swingers to cuckold

We have a nice 9 years-old marriage, and four years ago we started to play in the swinger's lifestyle. But last year we played entirely as a cuckold couple and I love it even more than the swingers experience. I just love how other guys get horny by her, and to see how much she enjoys to be with others. This year I want to convince her to get out more and to lock me into chastity. I want to see her sexuality grow while I become her sissy sex servant.
Any experiences or advices for becoming a good sissy cuckold?
 
If you have been married as long as you have, you should be able to tell each other exactly what you want from your relationship. Every one is different. In our case |I told my partner I was attracted to coloured guys and didnt go with white guys any more and he had to accept it. He was a Crossdresser when I met him . I suggested I put him into a Cock cage and he was quite excited about the idea. I have a regular Bull and my partners job is to clean me up after I have had a "session" I allow my cuck to stay dressed at weekends and he dresses me when I go to meet my Bull . As I say it is not the same for everyone !
 
sounds hot, a quite exciting development. i think you're very lucky. unfortunately i can't say i speak from experience. but i think it's very important that you stop having sex, completely and definitively, start pleasing her only orally and put all your dedication in cleaning up when she get used and fucked by her black bulls. im sure that way you'll be able to build a honest intense beautiful relationship with her, and find your own true soul
 
sounds stupid why bother being married if you are not going to fuck her, it would be easier to watch porn and jerk off, keep it up and that is what will happen she will leave you
 
1. Because marriage have the meaning that marriage people gives to it, because we both love each other and because this is a sexual game.
2. Because this threat is into the forum named "Bisexual Cuckold Club" and it happens that my comment is a Bisexual Cuckold practice.
3. Because I continue fucking my wife but with longer intervals that increase my desire and in the meanwhile let me play with other games that enjoy without her and that let her play other games that she enjoys without me.

I'm not expecting you to understand, to quit a hetero normative point of view, or to not judge (thing that I know you already did), but I would like to ask you to try (yes, just to try) to create a nice environment for everybody. After all, this is one of the few places in which some of us can dare to "expose our fantasies and secret beings", and that is what keep us coming back.

I hope you're OK and that you enjoy the Bisexual Cuckold Club forum. There is also other topics on the this page. They're really cool as well.

Have a nice day.
thanks for clarifying and I am not judging or valuating your behavior, if you read many of the posts on here you will notice that some are fiction, some are nonsense and some give bad advice, discourse and criticism allows people to clarify and enhance their messages.
 
I totally agree with you in this point, and of course we're always open to criticism and advices (you can check all our forums contributions). It was just the part when you literally told us: "sounds stupid why bother being married" that felt judgmental and valuating on our behavior. But not bad feelings at all. Actually we appreciate that you took your time to answer, and to land your comment in a positive note.

Now, coming back to the main topic. Do you know some experiences of people going from a swinger to a cuckold relationship?
My guess is that the process is more about female domination of her husband and there is nothing that demonstrates domination of a man than for the wife to fuck other men with his acceptance and often participation. Women tend to do things by gentle persuasion and using a mans sexuality to bend him is fair game. If most men had to make a choice of being caned in the public square by their wife or watching and accepting her fucking another man most men would have sore behinds and red faces.. When a woman openly involves her husband as a cuckold it also gives her control over her lovers or bulls. Having babies gives a woman an incentive to have control over and own a man. The sex part is just a means and is fun to boot. Most cuckolds start with swinging or some other sexual activity that is not exclusively husband wife lover and progresses. Women use the carrot lol is that your wife in the pic I went from swinging to cuckold who cleans and sucks
 
We have a nice 9 years-old marriage, and four years ago we started to play in the swinger's lifestyle. But last year we played entirely as a cuckold couple and I love it even more than the swingers experience. I just love how other guys get horny by her, and to see how much she enjoys to be with others. This year I want to convince her to get out more and to lock me into chastity. I want to see her sexuality grow while I become her sissy sex servant.
Any experiences or advices for becoming a good sissy cuckold?

Funny, but as we've written elsewhere on this site, the first time Pam took some BBC we had been married almost 9 years. We weren't into swinging or any other extra type sexual activity up to that point. It happened while we were on a combined vacation/convention trip. The pleasure of giving Pam here first strange cock, other than my own that is, went to an old university friend and roommate of mine, Edwin. We never thought of it as anyone being cuckolded other than Pam being in the right place at the right time with the right guy! Of course I also have to admit, I had over almost the entire 9 years of being married, shared my fantasy with Pam, whenever we were making out, of wanting to see a black guy do a white pussy. I never ever dreamed that my fantasy one day would come true and that the black guy doing the white pussy would be my old university friend, Edwin. Lesser still did I ever imagine that the white pussy I'd be witnessing being pounded would be pounded by an almost 12 inch massive big black cock, or that the white pussy suffering the consequences inflicted by that monstrous cock would be my wife's swollen white hot wet horny for black cock pussy!
p.s. Did I mention that was 4 years ago this month and to celebrate we're currently on vacation cruising the Bahama Islands. Yes, of course, Edwin is with us. We're posting about it under the heading "Vacations" if you're interested.
 
Really love how you described the transition. It describe precisely our feelings on this days. And yes, the one in the profile pic is my wife. In our profile we splot albums, so one is just her. :)
Are you allowed other women or to have sex with other men by yourself and do you have any desire to do so. Your wife is very lovely and has the same name as mine. How old was she when this started and does she dominate you in other ways
 
if you are happy just keep good communications and relax and enjoy the ride there is no manual or rules and we are all different so just find what works for you
 
Thank you. She was 25 when we started swinging. Now she's 30 and we just started cuckolding. She's allowed to sleep with who ever she wants, and I'm only allowed to have sex with other men, but it didn't happen yet. My maximum pleasure comes when I see her with others, specially when she take pictures and I'm not present. By now I enjoy a lot when she masturbate me telling me her stories. I like to wear women underwear and I do fantasise with having sex with men, but until now I keep this as a fantasy.
She always was dominant. She is a bit bossy and I love to fuck her hard. But when I prolongue the sex with her is always more intense for me when we do it again. We are really comfortable now having sex once a week, and during that week she tease me a lot. I have to say that I never experience anything like this in my entire life but I already feel so horny all the time thinking how is gonna be next time we are together, as well as thinking who she will sleep with next.
are you allowed to be with other men alone without her knowledge and does she dominate other men, has she used a toool to fuck you with yet, sorry for being nosey
 
have you had sex with another man without her being present and once she does takes your anal virginity is she going to let her bulls use you in this manner. It is the ultimate form of submission and dominance
 
I ever had sex with a man (yet), but she surely did -with and without me. I would love to show my submission by being fuck by a guy in front of her, specially if that guy is her bull. Until now, so far what I did with a man is to hold his cock to help him fuck my wife.
does she plan to let her men fuck you and is she going to make you suck one off
 
As a fantasy that sounds grea, but of course it depends of the preferences of the Bull. As long as she is seeing other guy, I'm happy. :)
You may want to buy her a vibrator and ask her to use it on you to demonstrate your submission. Once she starts doing you with it she will start looking at you in a different way and feel like she owns you and can do with you as she pleases. Telling a woman is one thing but a physical demonstration really convinces them.
 
great for you and her. have a nice experience.
if you are adventurous, go ahead and become a true sissy- shave, wear her panties, and get her bull to choose your hair style and a skirt for you.your bull will love this.
 
I HAVE MET A LOT OF COUPLE THAT WAS IN THE SWING LIFSTYLE AND HAVE MOVE FROM IT TO COCKOLDING AND WE ARE ONE OF THEM OURSELF, WE HAVE BEEN IN THE LIFESTYLE FOR ABOUT 20 YEARS BUT JUST N THE LAST YEAR AND A HALF ME ENTER INTO COCKOLDING THE FIRST 18 YEARS ME MET COUPLES SINGLE AND GROUPS AND I WAS NOT BI OR THOUGHT ABOUT BEING BI AND WE ONLY MET WITH WHITE COUPLE OR SINGLES THE WIFE OR MYSELF HAVE NEVER WITH A BLACK MAN OR FEMALE .BUT ABOUT A YEAR AND A HALF THAT ALL CHANGED, WHERE I WORK I HAVE A BLACK FRIEND WE HAVE WORK TOGETHER FOR OVER 18 YEARS WE HAVE BEEN TO HIS HOUSE AND HIM TO OUR FOR DRINKS COOKOUT WE ALL LIKE TO FISH AND OTHER THING ,WELL ONE NIGHT WE HAD OVER FOR A COOKOUT AND WE WERE ALL DRINKIG BEER AND DID A FEW SHOTS ,WELL HE GOT A LITTLE TO ******* TO DRIVE SO WE MADE HIM STAY NOW THAT HE WAS STAYING WE ALL KEPT DRINKIG AND TALKING ,SOMETIME THAT WHY WERE TALKING IT TURN TO SEX TALK HE KNEW ABOUT THE WIE AND I THE LIFESTYLE WE WERE IN THE MORE WE TALK THE HOTTER THE TALK GOT AT ONE POINT HE TOLD US THAT HE HAD NEVER BEEN WITH A WHITE WOMEN BUT WOULD LIKE TO BE ONE OF THEY DAYS ,WE TOLD HIM THAT WIFE HAD NEVER BEEN WITH A BLACK MAN OR ME WITH A BLACK FEMALE ,THEN THE TALK TURN TO THE TO BUSINESS THE WIFE HAS SHE SELL SEXY LINGERIE HE WAS ASKING HER HOW SHE WAS DOING IF SHE WAS SELLING A LOT AND SHE STARTED TELLING ALL ABOUT IT THEN SHE ASK HIM IF HE WOULD TO SOME OF THE THINGS SHE WAS SELLING YOU KNOW WHAT HE SAID,SHE WENT AND GOT SOME OF THE LINGEERIE AND SHOW IT TO HIM. HE KEPT SAID IF HE HAD A WOMEN HE WOULD BUY IT ALL, WELL THIS ONE OUTFITE SHE PULL WAS ONE SEXY OUTFITE I DD LOOK GOOD THAT WHEN HE SAID IT HE SAID I BET YOUR WOULD HOT IN SOMETHING LIKE THAT SHE JUST SMILE AS SAID NO I CAN'T NOT IN FRONT OF YOU HE JUST SMILE AND SAID WE ARE ALL FRIEND HERE T JUST US AGAIN SHE TOLD HIM NO THAT WHEN I OPEN MY MOUTH AND SAID WHY NOT SHE JUST LOKED AT ME AGAIN I SAID GO FOR IT WE ARE ALL FAMILY HERE SHE LOOK AT ME AND ASK YOU SURE IT OK I SAID .SHE GOT UP WENT TO OUR BEDROOM ABOUT 20 MINUTE LATER WE STARTE TO THINK SHE HAD CHANGE HER MINE SHE WALK BACK OUT WAREING IT TO IN FRONT OF US AND ASK WHAT DO YOU THINK A BIG SMILE CAME ACROSS HIS FACE AND SAID DAMN YOU LOOK HOT SHE MADE 2 OR 3 TURN IN FRONT OF US .I SAID SENT YOU ARE UP GET US ALL A BEER WENT SHE CAME BACK BEEN OVER TO GIVE US OUR BEER THERE WAS HER TITS FOR ALL TO SEE HE SAID NICE TITS TO,,,WE TALK HER INTO TRYING ON 4OR 5 MORE OUTFITE FOR US . BY NOW THE BOTH OF US WAS HARD YOU COULD SEE IT IN OUR PANTS AND FROM THE LOOK OF THING HIS WAS A LOT BIGGER THEN MINE,BY NOW WE WERE ALL REAL *******,,THAT WHEN THE WIFE LOOK AT THE 2 OF AND SAID ISHOW YOU MINE NOW SHOW ME YOUR, I DIDN'T NOT TAKE LONG FOR TO TALK INTO IT OF CAME OUR PANTS OUT POP OUR COCK HARD HER EYES WENT RIGHT TO HIS COCK HE HAD TO BE 4 "BIGGER THEN ME IN ON MOVE HER OUTFITE WAS ON THE FLOOR AND SET DOWN ON THE FLOOR RIGHT IN FRONT OF US STILL LOOKING AT HIS BIG COCK WITH OUT ASKING A WORD SHE TOOK HIS BBC IN HER MOUTH AND STARTED SUCKING HIM ME JUST LOOKING AT HER AND HER EYES LOOKING BACK AT ME LIKE I'M SORRY BUT I NEED TO DO THIS .THAT WHEN I MOVE TO THE FLOOR UNDER HER ANDSTARTED LICKNG HER PUSSY THIS WENT ON FOR ABOUT 20 MINUTE THEN SHE GOT UP MOVE TO HIM PUT HER LEGS ACROSS HS AND SET DOWN ON HIS BIG COCK AND SLOWLY MOVE DOWN N TO IT HE STARTED PUSHING UP O MET ER DOWN PUSH HE FUCK HE FOR 30 MINUTE BEFORE HE CAME IN HER ,,,,WELL THIS STORIE SUGO ON FOREVER BUT TO MAKE IT SHORT WE EDNED UP WITH HIM FUCKING HER 4 TIMES ME SUCKING HIM OFF ONCE AND SUCKING HIM BAC HARD ONCE THAT STORIE OF HOW WE BECAME A COCKOLD COUPLE
 
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