From swingers to cuckold

Discussion in 'Bisexual Cuckold Club - Chat & Fantasies' started by zunyandfer, Mar 17, 2016.

  1. zunyandfer

    zunyandfer Well-Known Member

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    We have a nice 9 years-old marriage, and four years ago we started to play in the swinger's lifestyle. But last year we played entirely as a cuckold couple and I love it even more than the swingers experience. I just love how other guys get horny by her, and to see how much she enjoys to be with others. This year I want to convince her to get out more and to lock me into chastity. I want to see her sexuality grow while I become her sissy sex servant.
    Any experiences or advices for becoming a good sissy cuckold?
     
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  2. heyla

    heyla Active Member Real Person

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    Look more cuckold video, follow cuckold blog, wear a chastity...
     
  3. zunyandfer

    zunyandfer Well-Known Member

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    I've doing lot of the first two, and defenetly I'm going for the third one. :)
     
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  4. heyla

    heyla Active Member Real Person

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    Stop fuck her in pussy, her pussy only for bbc now
     
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  5. tomtomjim

    tomtomjim Well-Known Member

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    get her to fuck you with a strapon or dildo many many times and then ask her to let her bulls fuck you. She will see you as her property and do with you as she choses but do not whine about it after
     
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  6. killerheels

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    If you have been married as long as you have, you should be able to tell each other exactly what you want from your relationship. Every one is different. In our case |I told my partner I was attracted to coloured guys and didnt go with white guys any more and he had to accept it. He was a Crossdresser when I met him . I suggested I put him into a Cock cage and he was quite excited about the idea. I have a regular Bull and my partners job is to clean me up after I have had a "session" I allow my cuck to stay dressed at weekends and he dresses me when I go to meet my Bull . As I say it is not the same for everyone !
     
  7. L-toy

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    sounds hot, a quite exciting development. i think you're very lucky. unfortunately i can't say i speak from experience. but i think it's very important that you stop having sex, completely and definitively, start pleasing her only orally and put all your dedication in cleaning up when she get used and fucked by her black bulls. im sure that way you'll be able to build a honest intense beautiful relationship with her, and find your own true soul
     
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  8. tomtomjim

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    sounds stupid why bother being married if you are not going to fuck her, it would be easier to watch porn and jerk off, keep it up and that is what will happen she will leave you
     
  9. zunyandfer

    zunyandfer Well-Known Member

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    1. Because marriage have the meaning that marriage people gives to it, because we both love each other and because this is a sexual game.
    2. Because this threat is into the forum named "Bisexual Cuckold Club" and it happens that my comment is a Bisexual Cuckold practice.
    3. Because I continue fucking my wife but with longer intervals that increase my desire and in the meanwhile let me play with other games that enjoy without her and that let her play other games that she enjoys without me.

    I'm not expecting you to understand, to quit a hetero normative point of view, or to not judge (thing that I know you already did), but I would like to ask you to try (yes, just to try) to create a nice environment for everybody. After all, this is one of the few places in which some of us can dare to "expose our fantasies and secret beings", and that is what keep us coming back.

    I hope you're OK and that you enjoy the Bisexual Cuckold Club forum. There is also other topics on the this page. They're really cool as well.

    Have a nice day.
     
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  10. tomtomjim

    tomtomjim Well-Known Member

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    thanks for clarifying and I am not judging or valuating your behavior, if you read many of the posts on here you will notice that some are fiction, some are nonsense and some give bad advice, discourse and criticism allows people to clarify and enhance their messages.
     
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  11. zunyandfer

    zunyandfer Well-Known Member

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    I totally agree with you in this point, and of course we're always open to criticism and advices (you can check all our forums contributions). It was just the part when you literally told us: "sounds stupid why bother being married" that felt judgmental and valuating on our behavior. But not bad feelings at all. Actually we appreciate that you took your time to answer, and to land your comment in a positive note.

    Now, coming back to the main topic. Do you know some experiences of people going from a swinger to a cuckold relationship?
     
  12. tomtomjim

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    My guess is that the process is more about female domination of her husband and there is nothing that demonstrates domination of a man than for the wife to fuck other men with his acceptance and often participation. Women tend to do things by gentle persuasion and using a mans sexuality to bend him is fair game. If most men had to make a choice of being caned in the public square by their wife or watching and accepting her fucking another man most men would have sore behinds and red faces.. When a woman openly involves her husband as a cuckold it also gives her control over her lovers or bulls. Having babies gives a woman an incentive to have control over and own a man. The sex part is just a means and is fun to boot. Most cuckolds start with swinging or some other sexual activity that is not exclusively husband wife lover and progresses. Women use the carrot lol is that your wife in the pic I went from swinging to cuckold who cleans and sucks
     
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  13. Drillher4me

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    Funny, but as we've written elsewhere on this site, the first time Pam took some BBC we had been married almost 9 years. We weren't into swinging or any other extra type sexual activity up to that point. It happened while we were on a combined vacation/convention trip. The pleasure of giving Pam here first strange cock, other than my own that is, went to an old university friend and roommate of mine, Edwin. We never thought of it as anyone being cuckolded other than Pam being in the right place at the right time with the right guy! Of course I also have to admit, I had over almost the entire 9 years of being married, shared my fantasy with Pam, whenever we were making out, of wanting to see a black guy do a white pussy. I never ever dreamed that my fantasy one day would come true and that the black guy doing the white pussy would be my old university friend, Edwin. Lesser still did I ever imagine that the white pussy I'd be witnessing being pounded would be pounded by an almost 12 inch massive big black cock, or that the white pussy suffering the consequences inflicted by that monstrous cock would be my wife's swollen white hot wet horny for black cock pussy!
    p.s. Did I mention that was 4 years ago this month and to celebrate we're currently on vacation cruising the Bahama Islands. Yes, of course, Edwin is with us. We're posting about it under the heading "Vacations" if you're interested.
     
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  14. zunyandfer

    zunyandfer Well-Known Member

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    Of course we're interested!! I totally love to hear and to see this stories. Such a particular journey. Lucky Edwin and lucky the two of you :)
     
  15. zunyandfer

    zunyandfer Well-Known Member

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    Really love how you described the transition. It describe precisely our feelings on this days. And yes, the one in the profile pic is my wife. In our profile we splot albums, so one is just her. :)
     
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  16. tomtomjim

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    Are you allowed other women or to have sex with other men by yourself and do you have any desire to do so. Your wife is very lovely and has the same name as mine. How old was she when this started and does she dominate you in other ways
     
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  17. tomtomjim

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    if you are happy just keep good communications and relax and enjoy the ride there is no manual or rules and we are all different so just find what works for you
     
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  18. zunyandfer

    zunyandfer Well-Known Member

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    Thank you. She was 25 when we started swinging. Now she's 30 and we just started cuckolding. She's allowed to sleep with who ever she wants, and I'm only allowed to have sex with other men, but it didn't happen yet. My maximum pleasure comes when I see her with others, specially when she take pictures and I'm not present. By now I enjoy a lot when she masturbate me telling me her stories. I like to wear women underwear and I do fantasise with having sex with men, but until now I keep this as a fantasy.
    She always was dominant. She is a bit bossy and I love to fuck her hard. But when I prolongue the sex with her is always more intense for me when we do it again. We are really comfortable now having sex once a week, and during that week she tease me a lot. I have to say that I never experience anything like this in my entire life but I already feel so horny all the time thinking how is gonna be next time we are together, as well as thinking who she will sleep with next.
     
  19. tomtomjim

    tomtomjim Well-Known Member

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    are you allowed to be with other men alone without her knowledge and does she dominate other men, has she used a toool to fuck you with yet, sorry for being nosey
     
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  20. zunyandfer

    zunyandfer Well-Known Member

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    Don't worry about being nosey, I think curiosity and sharing experiences are what bring us all here in the first place.
    She didn't used any toy with me yet (unfortunately), but we have been talking about it and it's into out plans.
    The rules we have for us is basically what I posted in the last comment. We never do anything without the knowledge of the other (after all, the permission and the subsequent sharing are always a huge turn on for us) :)