Found IR porn on my wifes phone

#1
I needed to use my wife's cell phone to make a call and mine was dead. After the call I had to check something online and she didnt clear her history. When I started to type I noticed she had several links to pornhub on her phone which really surprised me. Most of the videos were for gangbangs. What was more surprising was that they were mostly IR gangbangs or breeding sessions, for example, this one: http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1429542088

I'm very sure she doesnt want to get pregnant in a a gangbang but not sure what this all means or what I should do next. Any suggestions? Thanks!
 

Mrs.InCharge

Couple
Gold Member
From
OK, US
#11
any other ideas of how to approach her and what to say
Here's my advice. Subtlety and shared smiles are how you need to handle this. At some completely benign point in your day when your face to face, reference that you mistakenly saw the website on her phone. When she gets wide eyed just say the word "Hot" then smile and then Segway to another topic of conversation.

You want to registrar your approval but not be pushy or pervy. It will allow her to relax her own already built in fear and show her that you two are now sharing a "dirty secret"....and that is way hotter than anything on any website
 
#12
Ask her fi she likes black guys cause you noticed that a lot of women are having relationships with them. Mention how you find a black baby nice and that you think it breaks down racial barriers making a more tolerant society. Then when you role play use a black dildo or watch the interracial films with her. That should get her talking with you and the rest is up to you!
 

MacNfries

Male
Sweet & Cordial
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From
NC, US
#15
... I just am unsure of how to approach it or when?
If you haven't the nerve to discuss it with her, why not secretly drain her cell phone battery, then leave your cell phone out for her to use, with the same type of pics on it for her to look at ... it'll let her know you're tuned in to her fantasies.
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Your problem with communicating is a growing problem with all the texting, etc going on. People are losing their skills to actually socialize ... sad, actually.
 
#18
Just make sure its what you both want, its different fantasizing than the real deal, the first time is always special, he will bring her to new heights, pleasures that she has probably never experienced before that will leave her wanting more. Now she is hooked and its no turning back so hold on for the ride!!!!!!!!!
 

Janice K

Female
Gold Member
From
FL, US
#19
With you being on this site, I assume you have interracial fantasies also so maybe sometime while in a sexual mood, ask her to share fantasies with you.. And if she doesn't answer anything about fantasizing about black men, ask her to explain what you found on her phone. If she continues to avoid telling you about it, then you might admit to her it's okay and that it's a fantasy of yours to see her sexually with a black man also.. Like others that have already mentioned, communication for a couple is the best medicine..
 
#20
A lot of advice on this site assumes a submissive or supportive role for hubby. Now for advice if your relationship is more typical. She may want to be told it's ok, she may want you to lead the way, if this is the case following the advice above she may loose respect for you as her husband. As advised above yes definitely mention how you stumbled upon her porn viewing habits, but then say I liked what I saw and you'd like her to do that. She maybe shy and deny it but that's when you say don't be embarrassed, I know You love me and that will never change. In essence take the lead and direct her to act out her she your fantasies.