First white woman

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by black rob, May 1, 2012.

  1. black rob

    black rob Member

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    I am an attractive black male that has never had a white woman and really don't know how to attract them. It odd because when I tell women that they say they are surprised but I just don't know how to attract them anyone got any advice for me
     
  2. kissylips

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    not sure what others might tell you..but as for me..the straight forward approach is best..pick up lines and bs chat is just that bs..he honest... be you....relax and go for it
     
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  3. black rob

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    Thanks for the advice what do you call straight forward
     
  4. black rob

    black rob Member

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    Most women don't want you to be "that straight forward"
     
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  5. black rob

    black rob Member

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    Any women close to Huntsville Al
     
  6. kissylips

    kissylips Active Member

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    be who you are(be real)save the bull sh*t for ur buddies..let me know who u r... and listen and find out who i am
     
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  7. black rob

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    Great advice lol you seem mad real lmao are you were lmao
     
  8. teninches4Tracy

    teninches4Tracy Well-Known Member

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    I think most are a little nervous about openly showing interest to a black man. It’s just what they were taught. Alone will be a different story and any nervousness will be replaced with desire. There are clubs and other places that cater to white women seeking to meet black men and many interracial dating services. If you are as you say attractive and that along with what your holding, you shouldn’t have any trouble.
     
  9. Aimee_T

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    Just be yourself babe thats the best advise I can give you. BTW, you have a nice avatar ;)
     
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  10. black rob

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    Thanks ma I wish you were a bit closer to show me the ropes lol
     
  11. black rob

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    Love your Avi as well
     
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  12. black rob

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    I wish it were easier in Alabama lol still a bit intimidating approaching a white woman
     
  13. BLKDick

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    When out at the grocery store or something just act like a bachelor in distress. Like "excuse me but I'm making spagetti for the first time tonight, which sauce do you recommend that I use". And from her reaction u will know which step to take next.
     
  14. black rob

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    Lmfao just that instinctive huh
     
  15. BLKDick

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    Yeah. What your trying to do is spark up a conversation. If she smiles, if she's nice and receptive, if she's stoned face, if she looks at you look your an idiot. From her reaction you will know if you should pursue or not.
     
  16. wanabecucked

    wanabecucked Well-Known Member

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    My wife just likes to be chatted-up, she has never had a black guy chat her-up, i don't think it would take much for a black guy to get into her knickers.She knows that i want her to try her first bbc.