Any other cucks that are dying to see there wives go black come to the realization it may never happen. I know it is going to really suck having this fantasy and not be able to do anything about it.
Any other cucks that are dying to see there wives go black come to the realization it may never happen.
That is my next step, basically i want to get her to agree to a mmf with a nice white guy just to get her comfortable being with other men then i will go from there.You make it sound as if you are in the minority of guys that can't get their wives to swing with black men, or even other male partners, and you're definitely not. This whole cuckold thing makes no sense to most married women, as they've grown up all their lives hating cheating/unfaithful men ... then along comes a husband wanting his wife to take lovers. Women are rarely willing to share their men with other women, so it confuses them when their husbands want to share them; they suspect something is wrong with the marriage. In general, women cheat on their husbands because they they have too, not because they want too. And when they do cheat, I'd say most husbands never even know, until its too late, that their wives have even been unfaithful or cheated.
Your goal can often be accomplised in small steps if you will be patient. If you can get your wife to occasionally have a MMF 3-some with you, consider yourself a lucky guy. Women are more practical thinkers so they're going to be more cautious. If you can get her to go that far and she sees you & her enjoying it, then slip a black man into the next MMF and she may change her entire attitude about sex with black men. Just understand that opening this Pandora's Box is not always a wise thing because he's probably going to be more controlling and direct, and he's not going to be exclusive only to HER. Once addicted, she'll become "black owned". Sounds intriguing, I know ... but give it a lot of thought!
I get a lot of good ideas from being in here.Maybe if you devoted more time toward working on that instead of being in here always, you might have gotten some results.
Its not so easy, i can't just invite a black guy over and tell my wife to fuck him. I am going thru as and doing as much as i can without pushing too hard. I am just thinking she may never do it and not just with a black guy, with any guy. I may have one of the women who is not into fucking other guys. Time will tell.You might read all the materials in here all you want. The fact is you've become more addicted to knowing the information than putting them into practice.
I have put everything I have learned to use with no results and have tried many things on my own all with out success but the dream is still very real.You might read all the materials in here all you want. The fact is you've become more addicted to knowing the information than putting them into practice.
My wife knows that I have this fantasy and she express no interest. The only hope is that sometimes I make her participate on "fantasy talk" during sex. I tell her that me and another man are DP on her (I'm on her pussy while using a small dildo or my finger on her ass). I've made her tell me that she likes it. Although she tells me that she does the talk because I like it, at least is a start. Later I will propose her a MMF with me included and see what happens. However, if it only stays as a fantasy, so be it.Any other cucks that are dying to see there wives go black come to the realization it may never happen. I know it is going to really suck having this fantasy and not be able to do anything about it.
I understand, its frustrating for me because she does show interest but not beyond the fantasy stage yet.My wife knows that I have this fantasy and she express no interest. The only hope is that sometimes I make her participate on "fantasy talk" during sex. I tell her that me and another man are DP on her (I'm on her pussy while using a small dildo or my finger on her ass). I've made her tell me that she likes it. Although she tells me that she does the talk because I like it, at least is a start. Later I will propose her a MMF with me included and see what happens. However, if it only stays as a fantasy, so be it.
Very well put. I've been using all the lists I can find and have been trying these and some of my own ideas now for almost a year. Trust your judgment and not some list or someone who knows nothing about your specific situation. Whether and how you incorporate info, ideas, suggestions is up to you.Its not so easy, i can't just invite a black guy over and tell my wife to fuck him. I am going thru as and doing as much as i can without pushing too hard. I am just thinking she may never do it and not just with a black guy, with any guy. I may have one of the women who is not into fucking other guys. Time will tell.
A lot of similarities with my situation including the real possibility it remains a fantasy only.My wife knows that I have this fantasy and she express no interest. The only hope is that sometimes I make her participate on "fantasy talk" during sex. I tell her that me and another man are DP on her (I'm on her pussy while using a small dildo or my finger on her ass). I've made her tell me that she likes it. Although she tells me that she does the talk because I like it, at least is a start. Later I will propose her a MMF with me included and see what happens. However, if it only stays as a fantasy, so be it.
We have done it several times and enjoyed it very much. But there is difficulties with the lifestyle and some challenges so not sure we will do again like we did. Guess I should be more happy then most for both of us. I as wife got to get fucked good and have a good time and hubby got to enjoy what he liked. Just have to get back to that happy medium.
The challenges we have had varied. Allot of the challenges is finding quality guys. Most guys do not realize that they must have a personality and the attraction there. Some guys would meet and expect to get laid and just sit there waiting or some would have no connection at all. I am the type of person that likes to be attracted and feel the connection of wanting to fuck.
I do agree with you as regards to your points. Always good to build up a rapport between the couple. In fact, I've written articles as regards to such at my blog site, and even advised numerous couples about it.
Personally, I get wary with coming to this forum and seeing a lot of black men showing their dicks on their profile pics. You can't tell if they're real or not, and few can even hold a conversation in here.