Extreme race-play

#1
Since this is the ''Extreme'' and ''Alternative'' part of the forum, I was wondering if there are some members into some Extreme raceplay or incorporating race into bdsm.

I know race is a sensitive issue for most of you Americans but as a black male partially raised by a dutch white steph-dad and dutch/western culture, I feel comfortable with both sides of the spectrum . Just as I'm no misogynist but I sometimes like to humiliate woman based on their gender to add a extra dynamic to sex/roleplay. Since we do get brought up in a society that discriminates based on race, and thus identify with stereotypes/races. Adding raceplay to the bedroom can also add a extra dynamic.

I'm not trying to sound all ''high and mighty'' since I know that enjoying this kind of stuff indicates I have some kind of complex, but enjoying interracial porn is already a mild form of raceplay, and I know a lot of black guys are into the taboo of using the n-word during sex. http://motherless.com/5066A8A and an other thread https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/racial-humiliation.37454/
 
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MacNfries

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#4
re: Extreme Race Play
The problem with doing these kinds of fantasy play (ie Rape, Slave-Master, Gangbangs, Race Play, Bondage, etc) is that they have a tendency to occasionally go astray from "just play" to something more serious, and someone gets hurt from it ... physically, that is. And if you're male, and its a woman injured ... you lose; that's just the way it is.

I use my cats as an example: Cats love to rough house, particularly the 2 males. They'll play tag, and chase each other around the house, tackle each other, then run, etc ... its actually fun to watch them, but eventually (and it rarely fails) one plays a bit too rough, the other gets pissed off, and I end up having to break up a real cat fight. Fur flying everywhere, sometimes wounds I have to put antiseptic on. My neighbor, who loves my "tom", says we should just let them fight ... yeah, but then one of them gets seriously hurt and I end up with the vet bill. One of them got a eye scratch and it cost me over $200 fixing the damn cat up.

Anyways, one can say they're in "full control" of their emotions, but if someone accidently hits that hot button, its easy to slide into a not pretending situation. So, that would be my reluctance in suggesting such activities. Mac
 

Brent69

Couple
From
UK
#5
No reply? Also no white women who like raceplay, being forced to service the black race etc.?
Me and hubby really get off on the race thing. There's no way he would ever want to see me fuck another white guy. He loves the fact that I need to be used and abused by black men. He gets off on the fact that the black man is a more dominant and aggressive lover than him. X
 

MacNfries

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#6
Me and hubby really get off on the race thing..... He loves the fact that I need to be used and abused by black men. He gets off on the fact that the black man is a more dominant and aggressive lover than him. X
Certainly, but let's take it to the next level. You're getting "used & abused" by a couple aggressive lovers. Your loud moans and begging are stimulating these well hung studs to use and abuse you even harder, and you get injured, requiring some costly medical attention, or, you get an incurable social disease ... So, are you saying you and your husband would absorb the costs as part of the risks of your sexual fantasy? I don't think so. Once these guys start taking you, and your moans of joy turn to moans of pain, they're likely to get even more stimulated ... and once you get an incurable social disease, your husband, and men to follow, will likely want nothing to do with you once your issue is revealed. And do you think those hot, black studs are going to own up to the issue created? Wow ... I doubt you'd even be able to locate 'em, much less get any help from them.
Just saying, if you get into this scenario, please take the necessary precautions ... safe words and having your husband near by is really important.
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Makemeacuckoldnow!

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#7
Since this is the ''Extreme'' and ''Alternative'' part of the forum, I was wondering if there are some members into some Extreme raceplay or incorporating race into bdsm.

I know race is a sensitive issue for most of you Americans but as a black male partially raised by a dutch white steph-dad and dutch/western culture, I feel comfortable with both sides of the spectrum . Just as I'm no misogynist but I sometimes like to humiliate woman based on their gender to add a extra dynamic to sex/roleplay. Since we do get brought up in a society that discriminates based on race, and thus identify with stereotypes/races. Adding raceplay to the bedroom can also add a extra dynamic.

I'm not trying to sound all ''high and mighty'' since I know that enjoying this kind of stuff indicates I have some kind of complex, but enjoying interracial porn is already a mild form of raceplay, and I know a lot of black guys are into the taboo of using the n-word during sex. http://motherless.com/5066A8A and an other thread https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/racial-humiliation.37454/
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M

Makemeacuckoldnow!

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#8
Me and hubby really get off on the race thing. There's no way he would ever want to see me fuck another white guy. He loves the fact that I need to be used and abused by black men. He gets off on the fact that the black man is a more dominant and aggressive lover than him. X
Would you and your hubby to humiliate a white slave?
You guys sound perfect and so much fun!
Let me know
 

Ann4BBC

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UK
#13
Have to slightly agree with MacNfries about losing control of the situation.
I have written before about a bad experience i had after just starting in all this. I met a guy in a club, agreed to go back to his place. We went back and hubby was waiting in a car round the corner for safety. I thought it would be really funny/sexy to tell the guy that my hubby was an organiser in a Far Right party (hes not by the way). The guy really went off on one, ranting about racists and why we cant live together etc, i listened to his lecture then the following sex was very rough and scary. I still gave hubby the safeword as the guy was so angry, i was worried what would happen if
hubby came to the door!
I have never used this sort of extreme race play since, prefer the submissive, white wife role! X
 
#14
Have to slightly agree with MacNfries about losing control of the situation.
I have written before about a bad experience i had after just starting in all this. I met a guy in a club, agreed to go back to his place. We went back and hubby was waiting in a car round the corner for safety. I thought it would be really funny/sexy to tell the guy that my hubby was an organiser in a Far Right party (hes not by the way). The guy really went off on one, ranting about racists and why we cant live together etc, i listened to his lecture then the following sex was very rough and scary. I still gave hubby the safeword as the guy was so angry, i was worried what would happen if
hubby came to the door!
I have never used this sort of extreme race play since, prefer the submissive, white wife role! X
Thanks for sharing this Ann. Safety is extremely important. Doing things that are outside of our comfort zones is a sexual thrill of course but we must always be safe and engage with people that we trust. I'm glad that things worked out. Keep that sweet ass of yours out of trouble!
 

Ann4BBC

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UK
#15
Thanks for sharing this Ann. Safety is extremely important. Doing things that are outside of our comfort zones is a sexual thrill of course but we must always be safe and engage with people that we trust. I'm glad that things worked out. Keep that sweet ass of yours out of trouble!
Thanx! I think your words 'people that we trust' are the crucial ones, not try things with guys we've just met! X