Hi there, I never got to enjoy the cuckold lifestyle because I had never talked to my ex-wife while we were married about it. When she seperated from me before we got a divorce many of my friends told me they would see her around town "getting close" to a black guy. I would scour her fb trying to find out who it was, but there were too many to figure it out. I would start imagining her with any one of them, and as much as it hurt me it excited me. She divorced me soon after.