Envy at the Wife's Lover
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Does that excite you or piss you off?
I never wish to the be other man, I'm happy of who I am. What excites me is watching my wife get off and enjoying pleasure in all it's forms. As my wife describes sex with others "it's not better of worse, just different".
However, watching my wife in total bliss, I sometimes wish I was her.
However, watching my wife in total bliss, I sometimes wish I was her.
I never wish to the be other man, I'm happy of who I am. What excites me is watching my wife get off and enjoying pleasure in all it's forms. As my wife describes sex with others "it's not better of worse, just different".
However, watching my wife in total bliss, I sometimes wish I was her.
Do you as well wish for more cuck hubbies out there to adopt your style of thinking?
No, everyone does things for their own reasons. That's just my point of view.
In time, more hubbies will adopt your type of thinking.
I think it is only natural. As you watch your wife get what she deserves, you are naturally curious as to why it means so much and why it does not hurt the relationship you have with your wife. That is the dichotomy. How can she enjoy it so much and still love you?
Both, at different times. Sometimes one, sometimes the other
Paul, you really need to decide or you will confuse your wife. If you confuse her enough, she will leave you. Women like stability.
I never said it was easy, Paul. But if you keep sending her mixed signals? You WILL lose. Period.
DeeDeeinCO
Female
Growing up and having both parents ministers, I grew up with those same feelings. My heart was saying one thing, my head was saying another and my body was saying another. To this day, although I have sex with other men, daily, I find myself wondering if I am going to go to Hell because of my actions. Then I think about how much I am doing for others, and how happy I am making other people.
God made me the way I am, and he gave all of us our sex drives. Sex is not a bad thing. It only becomes a bad thing when those involved have bad intentions. I want sex with my husband more often, yet when the opportunity is there I find myself wanting others instead. I am very okay with who and how I am, but there are times that I feel that he pushes me toward other men. Then there are also times when I want other men more often.
This lifestyle does bring on several different emotions, whether you are the husband or the wife. My husband has few morals, if any. And I often wonder where his mind is, then I remember that I am as perverted as my husband is. And that is why I love him as much as I do, although I have sex with others more often than with my husband.
You have to be honest with yourself and your spouse. This lifestyle is for those couples who have strong relationships and a deep love for each other. This lifestyle is not for the timid, that's for sure. For a husband to be known as a cuck is tough on some men. And being seen as a slut is tough on many wives. Yet, those of us who live this lifestyle love it. The ups are more abundant that the downsides.
Making a decision to allow your wife to have sex with others can do one of two things, it can change your relationship for the worst, or it can strengthen your relationship and deepen your love for one another. Few women, once in the lifestyle, want out of it. Consider who's happiness is most important. Make a decision you are not going to regret. What you will regret you know better than anyone.
Ok. Wow. Dee dee. I am just in awe of you. You know where you are going. You know everything. I think we need to take this private
If you love your wife there is no way you would not give inmto envy if she likes and spends time with another guy. When your wife tells you how much she enjoys a taller man or man who is more muscular and of course if a guy has a bigger cock. My first wife a full out affair with a married man only after they broke up and ruined our marriage did she tell me her big thing was he had an 8" cock and she would of left me if he would of left his wife. Yes I was envious of his larger cock thinking if mine was bigger she wouldnt want him.
