Another member mentioned to me, "I do not think you are real at all. Your story is not credible unless you have no respect for yourself at all." Do you feel, or believe, that a married women who has sex with a lot of other men has no respect for herself? Do you feel that any woman who has sex outside of her marriage has no self respect? Should a woman like the one pictured below be seen as having no self respect? Or should a woman like the one pictured below be seen as having no self respect? Is the woman below a self respecting woman? Or better yet, this woman pictured below? Does a woman have no self respect only because she has sex with others? Or maybe because she is white and has sex with Black Men? What is the determining factor that denotes if a woman has self respect or not? And who has the right to make that determination?