doesn't seem to subside

Discussion in 'Cuckold Forum' started by lOCalcpl, Oct 27, 2013.

  1. lOCalcpl

    lOCalcpl Member

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    Its kind of crazy how this fantasy of seeing her with a bbc doesn't subside. If anything it continues to get stronger. We haven't spoken about it for probably a couple months now and I was hoping it would die off a little bit but it just isn't. Any other wannabes experience this?
     
  2. digittwitch

    digittwitch Active Member

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    For us, once the urge started we knew it wouldn't go away until we acted on it.
     
  3. lOCalcpl

    lOCalcpl Member

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    did you act on it?
     
  4. digittwitch

    digittwitch Active Member

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    Certainly, and have made it a regular part of our lifestyle.
     
  5. Flcouple38

    Flcouple38 Active Member

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    The urge can subside, but it never goes away and when it comes back it can be very strong. Hubby and I have not for many years now. I know he controls his urges, but at the same time when they hit, boy do they hit and he has hard time with them. Good luck, but based on experience on this side it is easier for girl to let it go then a guy at least in our instance.
     
  6. California Couple

    California Couple Member

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    Why do you want it to subside?
     
  7. California Couple

    California Couple Member

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    I am not submissive either, but don't try to deny myself something that I enjoy and is harmless.
     
  8. lOCalcpl

    lOCalcpl Member

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    yea I guess there is really no harm in having it as a fantasy
     
  9. lOCalcpl

    lOCalcpl Member

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    Im noticing that
     
  10. worshipu9

    worshipu9 Active Member

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    I think all of the white husbands on thus site understand those feelings 100%
     
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