Does my GF want BBC?

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  1. CuriousBlake

    CuriousBlake New Member

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    Hey everyone,
    New to the community, and wondering if you could help me out?

    My girlfriend constantly brings up BBC, but claims not to be into it. She says she's not attracted to blacks and the size "grosses her out." She says she doesn't like when they're "so big they hang."

    I have many examples that make me think otherwise, let me know what you think...

    The first time she brought it up, we were discussing the movie "Nymphomaniac."
    In it the female lead takes two BBCs.
    I casually mention that I thought there was no way those were real cocks, and she said "they definitely are. Black guys have massive cocks. I've seen it in porn before my girlfriends and I watched as a joke."
    To get her to elaborate, I played devil's advocate. "That's just a myth."
    She says "no, trust me, all black guys have huge cocks."

    Later, we're scrolling through Netflix and see Nymphomaniac streaming. She says "watch, put it on, I bet you they're real."
    So we watch it, and she says, she thinks they're real. Then she suggests we watch IR porn to see if other black guys have as big of cocks, so she can prove to me they're all that big.
    During the IR porn, she kept going "ew, they're so big, that's so gross." But she never looked away. After, we had amazing sex.

    Since then, there have been many times where she'll casually bring up black cocks, it'll end up in us watching bbc videos, and she always says she's grossed out, but then we have great sex and she'll be incredibly wet.
    (If you want more examples of how it was casually brought up and how it lead to IR videos, let me know, I just didn't want this to go on too long).

    One time, we even went to a nude beach, and there were lots of BBCs there. She commented about how they liked to show off. At one point, she spotted one that she could not stop talking about. "Oh my god, it's so big, look at the way it hangs and swings." He started running out of the water and she screams "holy shit! It's flailing around, it's like an elephant trunk!"
    I asked if it turned her on, and she said "no, I can't imagine taking something that big, it's gross."
    But every time I looked at her, she was staring at it.
    Later that week, we saw her good girlfriend and my girlfriend told her we went to the nude beach. She asked how it was, and my girlfriend goes "there was lots of big black cocks," excitedly.

    Anyway, a long time ago, I told her I had a fetish of girls walking in on me and being shocked by my cock, and that cock reactions were hot to me.
    A while back, we ended up looking at BBC reaction gifs on tumblr for nearly an hour under the pretense we both thought it was "funny."
    Recently, she walked in on me changing when I was soft but looked particularly large. She had genuine shocked reaction at my size and was very turned on. Her reaction turned me on, too. (She even mentioned she liked the way it hangs, even though she said it grosses her out when black guys' cocks hang).

    Because we haven't watched any porn in the last couple of months, and I don't know how to bring it up again, I thought I'd be a little more bold. I said told her her reaction to my dick was hot, and she said "I know, you've got a fetish about girl's reaction to your dick."
    And I said "yeah, that's why that BBC reaction tumblr was so hot to me."
    This grossed her out, and she said she thought we were just watching it cuz it's funny. She said "you liked seeing those black dicks?"
    I said "I just like seeing girl's reactions to huge cocks of any color."

    Later, we were talking about some porn she found on my phone of a girl with big tits, which she said made her feel self-conscious. She said "what if you opened my laptop and there was a girl getting fucked by three black guys with massive cocks?"
    And I said, "is that the kind of porn you watch?" And she said "ew no, I just mean how would you feel?" I said I wouldn't care, as it's just porn, and that I'd probably go out and buy her a 10" black dildo. She just said that's very sweet.

    Anyway, I know I'm rambling, but let me know what you think? Is she secretly into BBC?
    If so, how do I get us to watch more IR porn? We used to like once a month or so, she would find some way to bring it up and it would end in IR porn. Another time more recently I brought it up and she goes "here we go, black cock talk again." And seemed totally disinterested. I got embarrassed and changed the subject.

    What do I do to get her to admit she's into BBC, and for us to watch more videos? I don't know why it was so easy a few months ago, and now she makes me feel like a pervert.
     
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  2. Robnjenn

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    Truth be told she's probably already had it and is trying to get your approval!? I would just flat out tell her you think she would look hot getting fucked by BBC'S like the girls in those porn movies.
     
  3. CuriousBlake

    CuriousBlake New Member

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    I don't know, she's pretty shy and only been with a couple of guys before me. I'm pretty sure she's never had BBC. But I do think she's attracted to it. I just want to take baby steps to make it more normal to watch videos / talk about.
    I want her to admit to being attracted to it.
     
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  4. antisha22

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    Oooo men why so much stooling when she is so obviously into it....she either allready tried ir she wants a little push from you....she is definitely fantasizing about it if she is talking so much about it...
    I wish my girl was into it....would be so easy
     
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  5. CuriousBlake

    CuriousBlake New Member

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    What should I say/do next to bring it up?
    I'm thinking about planning another trip to the nude beach. I've been thinking of "jokingly" daring her to approach a BBC on the beach.
     
  6. antisha22

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    I'm not the right guy for the topic....just think you have the clear case here....she brings it up up a lot, the part when she is "grossed" by it it's just her shines I think, she maybe anxious of telling you directly....but definitely she's for it I think
     
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  7. CuriousBlake

    CuriousBlake New Member

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    Yeah, I think you're right. I'm definitely gonna be more bold next time.
     
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  8. antisha22

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    i think the dare is good idea....all in all when you have a chance open that subject (maybe like: you know what baby, I we been thinking about your BBC reactions and I think you're into it....)
     
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  9. antisha22

    antisha22 Active Member

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    If you are honest with each other an open to all discussions there should be no problem
     
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  10. Robnjenn

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    tell her you had a dream you caught her fucking some BBC'S and it really turned you on and you woke up with a raging hard on and you can't get the image out of your head and see what she says? Let us know.
     
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  11. Lv2cleanup

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    Definitely keep us up to date!!
     
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  12. CuriousBlake

    CuriousBlake New Member

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    That's a great idea! I'll probably broach the subject a little less directly than to outright say it really turned me on, but I'll say I had the dream and ask her what she thinks, then start playing with her and see how turned on she is.
     
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  13. CuriousBlake

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    Minor update -- going to a sex shop tomorrow to pick up a toy.
    It'll be our first time doing this, and I'm not really sure what she's got planned to pick out, but I'm jokingly going to point out the biggest realistic black dildo they have, like "oh my god, can you believe this thing? It's huge!"
    I'll see how she reacts and try to steer her in the right direction. I don't think she'll go for a huge 10" but I'm gonna try to have us get her one bigger than me that's black and realistic.

    It's for "foreplay" but I'm definitely going to try to work up to fucking her to completion with it at some point.
     
  14. CuriousBlake

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    Also going back to the nude beach in two weeks! Planning on booking a hotel to stay the weekend.
    I joked we should make friends there since we don't have any that would go with us. We'll see how that plays out. Wish me luck!

    Anyone have any suggestions for striking up a conversation while there?
     
    #14 CuriousBlake, May 25, 2016
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  15. a96

    a96 New Member

    Why don't you stop being a gutless worm and just be straightforward and directly straight to the point?

    How old is she and what does she look like? Do no guys hit her up at the nude beach? There couldn't be a easier place to get hit on...
     
  16. saint123

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    She is one 100% ready, what she is doing is projecting a negative opinion to see your reaction. This and simple psychology at work here. Even if you were to come out and say that you want to see her with BBC she will show the same Reaction, and act like she is shocked that you have this fantasy , in fact this is also hers which she is going to have trouble admitting

    You are strategy is going to have to be what she does not expect . PM me for ideas
     
  17. CuriousBlake

    CuriousBlake New Member

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    A minor update:
    She told me while watching the olympics, all she can think about is how hung all the black athletes must be.
     
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  18. Jose

    Jose New Member

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    Ask her to pick out which ones she thinks are attractive and would have a big one. See her reaction
     
  19. Jose

    Jose New Member

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    Sounds like she is curious to see how it feels to have one now. She is checking how you react about her comments. Maybe get your approval? Or she is waiting for suggestios from you?
     
  20. Torpedo

    Torpedo Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    I have met more than one woman that is shy and demure until she gets behind closed doors where they would turn into voracious sex machines. I know that many women will do things with me that they won't do with their husbands. Apparently there is a certain image that they want to maintain with their spouse. With me the only desire is to be sexually satiated.

    If your comments about her attitudes are accurate I think it is fair to assume she has experienced IR sex. Since you seem to be able to discuss your desires freely you should tell her that you are OK with her fucking IR, of course provided you are OK with here fucking IR. If you would like to watch say so. You should ask how she feels about you being present.

    None of the women that have shared my bed for the last 10-15 years have included their husbands. Whether any of the husbands are aware I don't know. I have always lived under the assumption that the husbands are unaware and utmost discretion essential. Your girlfriend may well wish to indulge her desires without your participation. I would have to say that women seem to separate love and sex better than men do. One of my current bed partners has been sharing my bed for over 10 years. We are of course good friends but she does love her husband and has no desire to leave or divorce him. The majority of women that share my bed of over 40, many younger women don't compartmentalize as well as more mature women