Does fantasy stack up with reality?

I appreciate all the responses. Its strange because while watching her getting fucked by a large black man is a strong fantasy of mine the reality of actually seeing it happen also freaks me out a little. Probably why I have not brought it up much to her. She does not think much about sex, all she really thinks about is her career and our future. I wouldn't want to change that because she truly is a great partner, very loving and family oriented. We have sex typically 1-2 times a week and its always great. The thought of her becoming addicted to bbc is hot as a fantasy, I am not sure about it as a reality.
 
I appreciate all the responses. Its strange because while watching her getting fucked by a large black man is a strong fantasy of mine the reality of actually seeing it happen also freaks me out a little. Probably why I have not brought it up much to her. She does not think much about sex, all she really thinks about is her career and our future. I wouldn't want to change that because she truly is a great partner, very loving and family oriented. We have sex typically 1-2 times a week and its always great. The thought of her becoming addicted to bbc is hot as a fantasy, I am not sure about it as a reality.
Trust me it kinda tripped me out too at first. But after a while she's the same cozy partner you snuggle up with and watch movies and hang out with. Now for me, we just get to go wild. And have our lil big secret. I love it. Truly I do. Hope you the best
 
My first ever fantasy was to see a white girl get laid by a black guy. That's another story in itself that we've posted about elsewhere on this site. Anyway that fantasy later carried over into our marriage bed. I never ever dreamed that my fantasy would ever become a reality, let alone that the white lady being fucked would be my wife! Or that the guy having the pleasure of giving her that massive big black cock would be an old university friend and roomate of mine. We had been married almost nine years when this happened. We were on a combined vacation/convention trip at the time. It wasn't really planned, just sort of being in the right place, at the right time, with the right guy. The question: Fantasy versus Reality!

REALITY WINS HANDS DOWN! It was the most awesome experience we've ever experienced! Edwin screwed Pam "bareback" and watching his massive black cock just touch her white swollen wet horny pussy lips that first time, and Pam's reaction to it, was enough to make me cum in my pants right then and there! REALITY! REALITY! REALITY!
 
I always had felt curiosity for black men. I thought all afro american men were like the ones from xxx porn movies (athletics ones, with great muscles and huge black cocks). When my wife told me some of her experience with her ex black boyfriend and we finally get a trio with him in 2012, I could understand some times the real life is different. Our friend has not as big cock as the incredible black tools from here, but he has a normal cock. And he's not as handsome as many others black bulls (he's shorter and thinner than us and he uses glasses). Despite these qualities, he has showed us that his virility and stamina were incredibles. Almost all the times they fucked in front of me, he could make my wife cum easily and in more than one occasion, she reached multiplex orgasms.
 
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My first ever fantasy was to see a white girl get laid by a black guy. That's another story in itself that we've posted about elsewhere on this site. Anyway that fantasy later carried over into our marriage bed. I never ever dreamed that my fantasy would ever become a reality, let alone that the white lady being fucked would be my wife! Or that the guy having the pleasure of giving her that massive big black cock would be an old university friend and roomate of mine. We had been married almost nine years when this happened. We were on a combined vacation/convention trip at the time. It wasn't really planned, just sort of being in the right place, at the right time, with the right guy. The question: Fantasy versus Reality!

REALITY WINS HANDS DOWN! It was the most awesome experience we've ever experienced! Edwin screwed Pam "bareback" and watching his massive black cock just touch her white swollen wet horny pussy lips that first time, and Pam's reaction to it, was enough to make me cum in my pants right then and there! REALITY! REALITY! REALITY!

I guess I am in the same spot you were. I cannot honestly see it happening but hope it does someday. Thank you for sharing.
 

It's not a significant fantasy for me to be with a white woman. White women are a preference. Nor are they particularly scarce. The contrast and color is nice, but it is intelligence, chemistry and trust that leads to the best sex for me, not raw visceral attraction.

Most of the time casual sex leaves me feeling empty. And despite the many good expriences I've had with white wives, the end of the day is I'm just a sexual object. There is no love or intimacy. It is cumming just for the sake of cumming. Lack of true intimacy bores me, whether it's in friendships, family relationships or sexual encounters.
 
It's not a significant fantasy for me to be with a white woman. White women are a preference. Nor are they particularly scarce. The contrast and color is nice, but it is intelligence, chemistry and trust that leads to the best sex for me, not raw visceral attraction.

Most of the time casual sex leaves me feeling empty. And despite the many good expriences I've had with white wives, the end of the day is I'm just a sexual object. There is no love or intimacy. It is cumming just for the sake of cumming. Lack of true intimacy bores me, whether it's in friendships, family relationships or sexual encounters.

I completely get what you are saying. I have been fucking one vagina for the last 6 years and it continues to get better and better.

It must have been fun when you first got started though yes? I mean, fucking another guys wife/girlfriend? Giving them what they needed?
 
Anyone who jumps into a lifestyle like this thinking it's all going to go exactly as you may fantasize is going to be met with a lot of disappointment. Before we undertook this journey we talked to a lot of people, did a lot of research and had many discussions. Even as prepared as we thought we were, we had to deal with many things along the way, especially my being able to give myself to another man while still being cognizant of my husband's needs. Communication and respect for each other is a real imperative. We do not engage in humiliation, never have, never will. Things evolve over time. We get better at defining the roles, wants and needs until we all settle into what is.

thank you. I like the directness and clarity of this. this is definitely something for us to carry.
 
I just had a recent situation where the Reality EXCEEDED the Fantasy and the hubby couldn't handle the natural chemistry between the hotwife and I.
He canceled our play date.

I guess thats like buyer beware. One thing that holds me back is not knowing how I would handle seeing her viibing with someone else.
 
I guess thats like buyer beware. One thing that holds me back is not knowing how I would handle seeing her viibing with someone else.

Yes, and he was NOT prepared to see his woman get so turned on by a stranger. I think The most glaring mistake is couples or men thinking that other people are 'props' for fulfilling their fantasy. There are very real emotions involved, even if it's just for sex.
 
Yes, and he was NOT prepared to see his woman get so turned on by a stranger. I think The most glaring mistake is couples or men thinking that other people are 'props' for fulfilling their fantasy. There are very real emotions involved, even if it's just for sex.

I don't know that it is possible to be ready for such a thing. As often as I fantasize about this stuff, when its done it is done. I am unsure about what emotions would kick in once I get off and she and he are still going at it like animals. The kissing, the flirting, the laughing. All that stuff does freak me out
 
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