I have never had a problem with sexual stamina until the past 4-5 years. As my cuckolding fetish fantasy has increased over the past few years I have become a rapid premature ejaculator to the point my wife only jerks me now. I can tell she doesn't want to hurt my feelings but She has let it slip on occasion I am a fast cummer. If I imagine her fucking bbc while I get a handjob i cum extremely fast. The premature ejaculation issues have gotten so much worse as I have gotten more into cuckolding. Has anyone noticed this happening the deeper you get into cuckolding?
Does cuckolding lead to premature ejaculation?
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My husband always had the problem with that well before I went black.
Same here babe. My hubby never had a lot of sexual stamina and cum quick most times (viagra helped). I was never too bothered but bit frustrating.
To be honest people always go on about size of black guys, but what I've loved best is the stamina of a great, sexual lover.
My stamina has gone way down since we started playing with others. I don't think I can last more than 10 seconds on most occasions. There's really no point in even having sex at that point. Just sit back and watch someone else take care of her.
I think I'm getting to that point. Unfortunately my wife isn't at that point so for now big black dildos will have to do. She likes them but won't come clean about being with another guy. On the rare occasions I do get to be inside her I don't last long. The last time she was so wet and loose from the BBC dildo, I literately lasted 4-5 thrusts. It was embarrassing so now I feel like I'm better off letting the dildo do it's job. On those rare occasions I do get her She has been stretched out and is satisfied sexually. I feel like my dick is becoming an after thought
Try to think of your shopping list or, even better, payments instead of "bbc" in your wife. That should help. 
i wish for you to have many premature ejaculations then.
It certainly had that effect on me. Dont get me wrong, I was never a sexual marathon man, but over the yrs, the more we talked about it, the quicker i'd cum. In the end it was like a trigger reaction. As soon as she would mention trying bbc it was all over for me. instant premature orgasm. To begin with I was ashamed of myself, then over time I came to enjoy the humiliation of it. And my wife saw it as a challenge, to see just how quick she could make me spill my seed. I got quite good at it too. lol
Being able to make love longer and holding off is a big deal to me to sweetie. But stamina and size together oh Baby
I've always had a quick trigger at times so it hasn't really affected me in that way. But more often then not when my wIfe is the bulls in front of me I don't last till the end. I've started to cum much quicker in those situations to my wifes amusement.
re: Does cuckolding lead to premature ejaculation?
....IMO a lot of voluntary cuckolding is done more for added excitement for the male spouse than for enhancing the pleasures of the wife ... thus, the added excitement for many of these males results in more desires to masturbate and obtain ejaculation more rapidly and more frequently. What cuckolds are doing is controlling their orgasms, but in the opposite direction ... instead of trying to delay ejaculations, they're conditioning their ejaculations prematurely for their own sexual pleasure. This isn't a good idea IF the cuckold plans on sexually satisfying his partners through intercourse in the future.
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Understandable with a hot wife like youDr. Mac has made a diagnosis again
Yes, cuckolding leads to PE. Hubby used to last a good 20-30 min before we started with the lifestyle and now he lasts just a few minutes before he cums
I think what your saying is the truth. I have probably conditioned myself over time to become a premature ejaculator through the cuckolding. I can't sexually satisfy my wife anymore as I only last a few thrusts before blowing my load. Even with handjobs I don't last long. It's great for me, bad for her. For cuckolds eating pussy is required as my cock is pretty much useless to her
I can't imagine all the excitement would lead to anything other than a hair trigger for the cuck.
Well, the O-P agrees with me. Maybe I should start my posts with IMPO (in my professional opinion) instead of IMO ... and to think, just 2 more years of college and I could have been getting paid for this.Dr. Mac has made a diagnosis again
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This is all a normal part of being a white cuckold partner and dam I would that any self-respecting cuck hubby sound make a facial efforts to clean and satisfy his wife or gf orally.. I mean he has a quite a bit less pressure on him once he accepts that he needs BBCs to satisfy his wife's needs that he can't even get close to doingDr. Mac has made a diagnosis again
Yes, cuckolding leads to PE. Hubby used to last a good 20-30 min before we started with the lifestyle and now he lasts just a few minutes before he cums
