I've known a few women who were "black only" and all of them are very confident, sexy women. Am I crazy or could there be a relationship?
Can only talk about ourselves, our marriage has definitely improved! There was nothing drastically wrong with it before but I always felt my hubby was in control and I felt a little powerless and lacked confidence.
He convinced me to start this lifestyle, going with black guys, and have fully embraced it, my shyness going and confidence growing.
Now I'm getting the attention, I'm more in control, hubby has to play along with me instead the other way round. Our dynamic has definitely shifted.
We're getting on really well now, I've become more of the decision maker on a lot of things. I think we ladies have to become quite strong in this lifestyle, to meet a guy and have sex with him within a very short time and know not much about him. You have to take control straight away!
It's true... black men seem more appreciative of a womanly body versus the expectation that a woman should look like Barbie in order to be attractive. I feel they are more attentive. How could that not instill more confidence in a woman?I was self-conscious about my weight, especially my big fanny; however, black men made me feel sexy. When I feel sexy, I am more out-going, more confident. The second aspect is that I was having incredible sex, which I doubt the majority of women will ever experience, this further made me feel special.
I agree entirely I know how it's made my wife over the years yes!!!I think it's true.
I know some too and even my own girl was never bold and confident like that before. I think its related to sexual satisfaction that tries happy mood and feeling.
When I feel sexy, I am more out-going, more confident.
This right here is the key folks!
Regardless of being in the lifestyle or not, every husband, boyfriend, FWB, playmate, etc. needs to make sure that the women in their lives feel this way.
It's not just the words you say but the thing you do everyday that help your special lady feel sexy. The confidence comes very quickly and strongly and it's fantastic to see and experience.
So many guys ask how to get their ladies into the lifestyle. They look at tricks, techniques, suggestions, etc. I say start right here with Beth's comment and you will certainly be on the right track!