Do you find it more fulfilling to watch or participate?

Discussion in 'Cuckold Forum' started by Threedecadecuck, Jun 19, 2013.

  1. Threedecadecuck

    Threedecadecuck Active Member

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    My hubby seems to enjoy watching more than doing when it comes to sex.
    I know watching me with others turns him on more than actually having sex with me.
    I admit I love him because my hubby allows me to be with other men and to please me and him by doing so.
    I don't get as much pleasure from just watching. I prefer doing to watching.

    What do you find most fulfilling?
     
  2. Imagination

    Imagination Well-Known Member

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    If it ever happens to me, she knows that I would rather watch than participate. It is like watching an intense porno, but with the most desirable actress; my wife. It could be with only one bull or more; that'll be up to her and the "moment". That being said, when it's time for me to have sex with her, I'll like to be the only guy and make that "love" connection.
     
  3. willsrvu

    willsrvu Administrator Real Person Gold Member

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    While my Wife has no desire to cuckold me at this time, in past relationships I definitely preferred to be involved in some manner over just watching. If not participating directly, I just as soon go do something of use like prepare refreshments.

    Don't get me wrong, watching can be fun as well to a point, but after a time or three, especially if it's the same lover ...
     
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  4. Ray

    Ray New Member

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    I liked talking about it together before and after the most. The sex before and after it happened was always the best. Watching was great but so was somewhat being in on the action,
     
  5. pacuckcouple

    pacuckcouple Member

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    I'd like to be involved but as far as intercourse she just doesn't feel me anymore. I don't care to watch while its happening but I like pics or video.
     
  6. jd2234irl

    jd2234irl Active Member

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    i love watching my wife getting fuck hard and fast by a well hung black bull, and hearing him unloading deep inside of her pussy is mind blowing.
     
  7. CrimsonCain

    CrimsonCain Active Member

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    I really enjoy watching my wife fucking other men.if i had my way i would only watch...but my wife usually wants me to join after a bit.i love watching because you can see things you just cant see if your busy pleasing her.
     
  8. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    My wife prefers me to watch AND participate ... she loves the "skew"! :)
     
  9. jimbobin

    jimbobin Member

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    I very much enjoy watching, with my level of participation limited to helping her and her bf.
    I like the humiliation and the dominance. When she openly has sex in front of me and shows how sex and desirable she is while limiting my sexual access it adds to the dynamic.
     
  10. subcuckk

    subcuckk Member

    Watch. My only choice as she doesn't want my white cock or cum anywhere near her pussy. Reserved for black only.
     
  11. calixto

    calixto Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    The first time that I had a cuckold feeling, was when my wife Susanna told me (answering my questions) about how was her sexual life with her black boyfriend Axel, with whom she had gotten a relationship before me.
    In that occasion I told her that I would have liked watch them fucking in front of me. So, my first feeling was "watch". But later I told her that I would have assisted her sucking his cock just to make him feel comfortable and they could fuck. Then my second wish was "participate".
     
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  12. Dalex Jindez

    Dalex Jindez New Member

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    No question about it... I'd rather watch and masturbates, than participate...
    Whenever it happens I will let my wife be fucked and I will jerk over and over...
     
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  13. CuckoldCouple

    CuckoldCouple Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Depends on the situation. We do both.
     
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  14. CuckCpl4BBC

    CuckCpl4BBC Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    I like him to participate if the bull is kinky enough to tolerate some targeted oral skills. Some bulls don't dig that so then he watches. I prefer he doesn't masturbate as that can be distracting. If he isn't licking he needs to be quiet and unobtrusive. He has orgasmed just watching without masturbating (his hands were tied to a chair). He seems to like the build up more than the release.
     
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  15. Flcouple38

    Flcouple38 Active Member

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    My hubby likes to watch and then gets with me afterwards. I am not for watching either and more for doing.
     
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  16. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Last time you talked about your wife (which is rare), you said you're still trying to convince her about this. What happened since?
     
  17. Patricia & Max

    Patricia & Max Active Member

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    my husband love to watch, and take photos. He loves to fuck me, but the four time I have been with other man he just took photos.
     
  18. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    He never cleaned your pussy?
     
  19. Patricia & Max

    Patricia & Max Active Member

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    not at all !
    we are not in thus kind of business, this is more bdsm than cuckolding
     
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  20. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    All comes down to how you want it. Any, just asking. I'll bet he's got more pics than call fill a library of you in action.