GOOD LUCK finding that!
Although you might get lucky if someone has before and after pictures of the work some of those Muslim country doctors do that rebuild hymens so that the women can find a husband, but I doubt those are any easier to find than the real deal. Maybe a medical journal someplace?
In any case, while a female may lose her hymen participating in sports, riding horses, inserting tampons, using dildos and any number of other ways, to truly be "deflowered" in the traditional sense requires that her hymen be broken by a hard cock. Preferably a nice large Black dick.