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Curious... So I'm asking...

Couple says hubby wants to be there (think back to your first time this happened). 1st reaction?

  • Hell no!

    Votes: 2 11.8%
  • Hell yes!

    Votes: 12 70.6%
  • Not sure if I'd want this or not

    Votes: 3 17.6%

  • Total voters
    17

Mariposa blanca

Female
Real Person
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From
Canada
#1
Ok, for all the guys who have had the woman's husband present during sex:

Think back to the very first time it was suggested to you that he be there. Maybe he'd participate, maybe he'd just watch, maybe he'd take photos or videos. What was your very first, honest reaction to the idea?
 
#2
Ok, for all the guys who have had the woman's husband present during sex:

Think back to the very first time it was suggested to you that he be there. Maybe he'd participate, maybe he'd just watch, maybe he'd take photos or videos. What was your very first, honest reaction to the idea?
A wonderful feeling to have sex with a wife in the presence of her husband
Especially in the first time I practice: you feel the pleasure of adrenaline rush
 
#3
Hubby is always there! None of our black friends have ever had a problem with that, but that is always made known from the beginning. He does film and take pics of most of my encounters, which at first I thought would be very awkward, but you soon forget the camera is even there. Sometimes he chooses to join in, which I love ! A black friend and the man who knows me better than anyone else in the world, 2 dicks, 2 mouths, and 4 hands, doesn't get any better than that! Yes I am a greedy gal..lol:)
naughty wife;)
 

MacNfries

Male
Sweet & Cordial
Gold Member
From
NC, US
#4
I think the real importance here is that it shouldn't be brought up just before the wife and lover are heading to the bedroom, or whatever. This is something that either the couple, or more preferrably, the wife brings up in the initial talks with the prospective lover. There's going to be a certain level of apprehensiveness anyways on that initial meeting, and you don't want this new guy to have any doubts as to the intent of the husband being there, or you risk it affecting HIS ability to perform. So, get it out front early to see if the lover has issues with hubby being there.

Although I've screwed a few married women in my time, I've never been in the situation where the woman's husband was there watching me ... in the couple swaps my wife and I have done, the hubbies have always had their hands full entertaining my wife. So, if it was me, as the 3rd wheel lover, and it was the husband's intent to sexually interact with ME during the MMF, it probably would affect me, and I'd probably pass on the opportunity. :oops: Yeah, call me a wuss or insecure, if you wish, but that's just me. Mac :cool:
 

bm_from_southjersey

Male
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From
PA, US
#5
I think the real importance here is that it shouldn't be brought up just before the wife and lover are heading to the bedroom, or whatever. This is something that either the couple, or more preferrably, the wife brings up in the initial talks with the prospective lover. There's going to be a certain level of apprehensiveness anyways on that initial meeting, and you don't want this new guy to have any doubts as to the intent of the husband being there, or you risk it affecting HIS ability to perform. So, get it out front early to see if the lover has issues with hubby being there.

Although I've screwed a few married women in my time, I've never been in the situation where the woman's husband was there watching me ... in the couple swaps my wife and I have done, the hubbies have always had their hands full entertaining my wife. So, if it was me, as the 3rd wheel lover, and it was the husband's intent to sexually interact with ME during the MMF, it probably would affect me, and I'd probably pass on the opportunity. :oops: Yeah, call me a wuss or insecure, if you wish, but that's just me. Mac :cool:
I don't think it's so much being insecure or a wuss as it is being observant and getting a bad vibe from a situation. I've been to swinger events where one half of the couple was clearly not having a great time, but because of the situation/location/presence of others, they just sort of bit their tongue and went with it. Now, imagine that same scenario in the privacy of a somebody's house or in a roach motel and the dynamics change, enough to make anybody a bit apprehensive.
 

MacNfries

Male
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From
NC, US
#6
Just curious, Exposing ... what makes you think he is white? Seems to be just as many faggoty black guys, and other races running around these days. Check the NBA ... one just stepped out and annouced he was gay. So, again, what makes you think this person is white? Mac :happy:
 

bm_from_southjersey

Male
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From
PA, US
#7
Very true Mac! I tend to say that too though! Think it is because when you bust a fake you are saying that they are the total opposite of what they claim to be." You are not really a Big Black Sex God, you are really a Little White Faggot" could be anyone really though!:unsure:
I just think the default assumption with any fake is that they are a gay white dude.
 

Mariposa blanca

Female
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From
Canada
#8
I wouldn't figure the guys who fake being black and hung as being gay, simply because they are seeking the attention of women. I figure they're the old white guys who just aren't man enough to admit it. The ones I think are gay are the ones who fake being a hot woman, knowing they'll get the attention of the guys. (Mostly)
 

bm_from_southjersey

Male
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From
PA, US
#9
I wouldn't figure the guys who fake being black and hung as being gay, simply because they are seeking the attention of women. I figure they're the old white guys who just aren't man enough to admit it. The ones I think are gay are the ones who fake being a hot woman, knowing they'll get the attention of the guys. (Mostly)
You make good points. I'm sure someday a psychologist or a grad student will write about the pathology of people who misrepresent themselves online, if it hasn't already been done, and that would be an interesting read.
 

blackmeat

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From
IL, US

blackmeat

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From
IL, US
#11
Ok, for all the guys who have had the woman's husband present during sex:

Think back to the very first time it was suggested to you that he be there. Maybe he'd participate, maybe he'd just watch, maybe he'd take photos or videos. What was your very first, honest reaction to the idea?
I got hard and fucked her good! Then the rest of the gangbang enjoyed her. I was the stallion that left the cream pie and the hubby was smiling while he video tapped it.
 
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