I just don't buy into all this "humulation" stuff I read about all over this site! For the wife and I it was a simple matter of bringing a long held fantasy of mine to fruition by being in the right place, at the right time, with the right guy!
...Suffice to say, it had absolutely nothing to do with humiliation, intimidation or any of that kind of crap! It had everything to do with simple pure mutual carnal pleasure for all concerned!