Cuckold sleeping arrangements

Discussion in 'Cuckold Forum' started by Mercurial, May 20, 2015.

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What should the sleeping arrangements be when the bull begins staying over?

  1. The cuckold sleeps on the couch or a guest room while the bull is there

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  2. As long as the bull is fucking the wife, the cuckold only sleeps on the couch or a guest room.

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  3. Other!

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  1. Mercurial

    Mercurial Member

    As soon as the bull begins to stay the night, sleeping arrangements for the cuck become a concern. The wife and bull need plenty of space to themselves, and as the "man" of the house, it's natural for him to be sleeping with her. So where does the cuck go? A guest room is the natural choice. If there's no guest room, the couch is a good alternative.

    The real question is whether this should be limited to the nights that the bull is staying over, or if the cuck should be kept out of the marital bed for the duration of the wife's relationship with her bull. As long as the relationship with the bull is sexual, it can be hotter for everyone involved if the wife is seen solely as "his", and the cuckold has to keep a respectful distance from her. If the cuckold is being denied sex completely, then it's only natural to move him out of the bedroom until that changes.

    For people into sissy-themed setups, it can be further humiliating to the cuckold by having the guest room decorated in pink and white, with a girl-sized single bed as the only place for him to sleep. This would also open up additional humiliations like being sent to his room for being willful, or having a strict bedtime.
     
  2. don dune

    don dune Well-Known Member

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    totally agree that the cuck should have his own room. the master bedroom and the master bed is for the wife and her black lover only, nice touch the single bed and making the room more girly
     
  3. beenblackened

    beenblackened Moderator Real Person Gold Member

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    When my lover is over my hubby stays in our spare bedroom and is only allowed in if I say it's ok for him to watch us fuck in out marital bed. But when were done he has to leave again so my lover and I can sleep.
     
  4. don dune

    don dune Well-Known Member

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    your lover and u do deserve alone time with out your hubby there.
     
  5. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    There are other options that don't emasculate or humiliate the husband. If a couple invites a 3rd party into their home for sex, the least this individual can do is show some appreciation, and try to maintain a harmonious relationship with both parties of the marriage. So, the bull should work with the couple to set "conditions & parameters" to the arrangement that will be agreeable to everyone, and respect his own presents as a guest in their home.
     
  6. don dune

    don dune Well-Known Member

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    true MacNfries but some couples are very into the bull taking his place in the master bed. just saying
     
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  7. bullman4us

    bullman4us Active Member

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    When I am spending the night cuck either sleeps with a bedroll on the floor at the foot of the bed (if he's lucky) otherwise he is outside the closed door sleeping in the hallway or in a spare bedroom.
     
  8. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    That's very true, that's why I said ... "So, the bull should work with the couple to set "conditions & parameters" to the arrangement that will be agreeable to everyone".
     
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  9. bullman4us

    bullman4us Active Member

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    Agreed. After all, the whole Bull/Wife/cuck dynamic is all about 3 people, not just 2. In my experience, when the relationship has developed into something ongoing and we have moved our play from hotels to the bedroom the cuck has become completely ready to his place on the floor or in an alternative room. At this point in the relationship as well cuck has been put into chastity and is therefore allowed, when I am not spending the night, to being in the bed though this can hardly be construed as taking my place.
     
  10. WillandSusn

    WillandSusn Well-Known Member

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    Agreed . When a "relationship" has been established , other sleeping arrangements should be made that allow
    the bull more access to the wife ..and less intrusion by the cuck . Some prefer that the cuck not be present at all .
    Others want him there to observe . This need not be emasculating or humiliating to the cuck but simply adding to
    the experience of everyone.
     
  11. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    I'm not giving up my king size bed and master bath for anyone. If anyone was to sleep over with the wifey, they could have the choice of a guest room with a queen bed and bath, or a foldout couch in the entertainment room.
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  12. WillandSusn

    WillandSusn Well-Known Member

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    Well within your rights . You pay the mortgage and the heating/electric bills . Some couples think using the master bedroom adds to the "entertainment" . As you say ...should be part of the "agreement" . Needs to be
    "rules" .
     
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  13. Dan Teal

    Dan Teal Active Member

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    I guess i am coming over then Mac, we will argue politics first though...LOL.
     
  14. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    Now, why would you want to ruin a good night doing that? ..... GIF_Yellowball-NO.gif ..... pic_politics_NoPoliticsSIGN.jpg ......
     
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  15. Dan Teal

    Dan Teal Active Member

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    I know right! on the real, your wife is hot though. No disrespect. I wi sh you could show more of her
     
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  16. Mandy and Brian

    Mandy and Brian Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    if a bull is staying the night which is rare with us (kids) hubby is in sons old room for the night ,that's the way we like it lol
     
  17. WillandSusn

    WillandSusn Well-Known Member

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    And then there is the "arrangement" where wife is "home alone" with her bull . Seems to be popular with some folks
     
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  18. Tom banks

    Tom banks Active Member

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    Yes I agree, me and my bull always fuck on the marital bed,and like you sometimes I let my husband watch, I never let him take part , and he sleeps in the spare room as he should.
     
  19. Whitebetasub

    Whitebetasub Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I would have to participate and sleep in the same bed with them.
     
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  20. Tom banks

    Tom banks Active Member

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    Sorry, just me and my bull.