I am a divorced male, average appearance and size. What I love is to see my partner receiving pleasure, so much so that they are just about helpless. I strive to do this myself but I know that it takes more than just me to make it happen. You need others, bigger, more aggressive, or just more of them. My fantasies are from mild with me just waiting at home or watching to very wild. It is something I love to do and something for us to have fun with. I am looking for a partner who is aggressive and/or Dominant. Also someone who likes to explore their pleasure as I will enjoy testing limits. And of course someone who doesn't want to keep themselves to only one partner, someone who wants to explore with others.