Couples.....What was the first time like?

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This question is for all of the couples who have actually gone through with sharing the wife with a black man. What was the first time like? Was it better or worse than what you had imagined it was going to be like? For the hubbies, what were your feelings like the first time you shared your wife with a black guy? Turned on,scared, or perhaps jealous? Just real experiences please......