Usually, when this happens, it's a new or newer member who finds all of the women and/or couples who happen to live in the same state/country/region/geographical area/hemisphere/solar system and then carpet bomb them with the same canned, lame message. I also notice this in the "couples and women seeking" section with dudes who have just joined up. Typically, they end up responding to 15-20 such postings within a few minutes of each other, some of which are more than 5 years old, then after a day or so they get frustrated and say "this site sucks, i've been here x days and I haven't gotten laid yet."