I work around a number of exciting, confident and self-assured Black Men. How do I remain buddies with them , but discreetly drop hints in the course of my workday that my girlfriend and I are ready to serve them?
I don't recommend any kind of relationships with co-workers. If things go bad you can find yourself working around people you might really dislike. Then there is the question of discretion. One bragging mouth can have your whole sex life a topic of office gossip. Go find a local swingers club and meet people there, you might meet some of the people from your office but there is a greater incentive to be discrete