Checking girlfriends interests for Black Men

EthanD

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Any tips/advice on what I should say or imply to see if she is attracted to black men or would ever go black? We just had great sex today and I followed a few steps from the guides, I went down on her repetitively and touched everywhere and told her I loved her all day today and I always want the best for her and us. I also kept my little clitty out of her earlier as much as possible and didn't get to cum, (she's into teasing me) so I believe I'm off to a good start but what should I approach next..
Don't be shy HELP!!!
 
Any tips/advice on what I should say or imply to see if she is attracted to black men or would ever go black? We just had great sex today and I followed a few steps from the guides, I went down on her repetitively and touched everywhere and told her I loved her all day today and I always want the best for her and us. I also kept my little clitty out of her earlier as much as possible and didn't get to cum, (she's into teasing me) so I believe I'm off to a good start but what should I approach next..
Don't be shy HELP!!!
@EthanD, Next step to try is simple - do you guys have Netflix? There is a new series on there Cage, spinned off from the jessica jones series. I want you to watch the Jessica Jones or Luke Cage series first without saying anything to her and find the episodes where Luke Cage gets it on with Jessica Jones. After you find those episodes, then tell her that there is an awesome show a bunch of people (especially females) have been talking about you think you guys should check out together. Then watch the episodes with the Big Black Bull Luke Cage fucking the ******* out of Jessica jones and see if she gets aroused any. When the scene comes on say man that was hot wasn't it. That should get her to reveal her thoughts. Then go further and ask her what does she think about him. If she says he is cool, hot then goto the next level with Inter-racial porn and only play IR porn from there on out while you guys get it on. Then introduce her to a black dildo with a Black Porn star's name, and continue following the guide and your on auto-pilot from there until those seeds are firmly planted in her subconscious mind, take root, grow sprout and you guys can talk about going to a club and make sure she dances with some black guys nice and close and grinding and bam, she'll be ready.

 
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Great idea bigblackbull76 that should get her thinking.
EthanD do you ever do role play or talk out fantasies when you are having sex? My hubby used to talk naughty with me about imagining black cocks entering me, or if I was dressed as slutty school girl he would say I'm to be punished by the new black headmaster 'Mr Thompson' and would use our large Doc Johnson black dildo inme.
My reaction to his talking- getting turned on, moaning, becoming wet etc- told my hubby that I was interested in BBC and might push it further.
Which we then did later and the rest is history!
 
Great idea bigblackbull76 that should get her thinking.
EthanD do you ever do role play or talk out fantasies when you are having sex? My hubby used to talk naughty with me about imagining black cocks entering me, or if I was dressed as slutty school girl he would say I'm to be punished by the new black headmaster 'Mr Thompson' and would use our large Doc Johnson black dildo inme.
My reaction to his talking- getting turned on, moaning, becoming wet etc- told my hubby that I was interested in BBC and might push it further.
Which we then did later and the rest is history!
No we just talk a little dirty from time to time, Idk how I would get her latched onto the idea of me wishing she was with a black guy while I watch though
 
No we just talk a little dirty from time to time, Idk how I would get her latched onto the idea of me wishing she was with a black guy while I watch though
When you talk dirty introduce the idea of her taking black cock, it's only dirty talk so no harm done either way, judge her reaction. Not many women don't get any reaction from the thought of BBC!
 
When you talk dirty introduce the idea of her taking black cock, it's only dirty talk so no harm done either way, judge her reaction. Not many women don't get any reaction from the thought of BBC!
So like what do you think my chances are of her being honest or being into it if I ask her straight up if she would approve of my fantasy of watching her fuck a black man? Idk how to word it either.
 
So like what do you think my chances are of her being honest or being into it if I ask her straight up if she would approve of my fantasy of watching her fuck a black man? Idk how to word it either.
Just bring it up in bedroom naughty talk first, say 'imagine taking a big, black cock, stretching you!' Sort of thing. See how she reacts.
Hopefully she will get turned on. If so then you say that you would love to see it happen for real, be a real turn on. Take it a step at a time. X
 
@EthanD, Next step to try is simple - do you guys have Netflix? There is a new series on there Cage, spinned off from the jessica jones series. I want you to watch the Jessica Jones or Luke Cage series first without saying anything to her and find the episodes where Luke Cage gets it on with Jessica Jones. After you find those episodes, then tell her that there is an awesome show a bunch of people (especially females) have been talking about you think you guys should check out together. Then watch the episodes with the Big Black Bull Luke Cage fucking the ******* out of Jessica jones and see if she gets aroused any. When the scene comes on say man that was hot wasn't it. That should get her to reveal her thoughts. Then go further and ask her what does she think about him. If she says he is cool, hot then goto the next level with Inter-racial porn and only play IR porn from there on out while you guys get it on. Then introduce her to a black dildo with a Black Porn star's name, and continue following the guide and your on auto-pilot from there until those seeds are firmly planted in her subconscious mind, take root, grow sprout and you guys can talk about going to a club and make sure she dances with some black guys nice and close and grinding and bam, she'll be ready.

My wife loves that show!
 
@Anne4BBC, has some really good ideas! You should dirty talk during sex and maybe tell her you'd like to see her with another guy. Ask her about her past bfs and lovers when you two are in the bedroom (even outside). Ask her if they were bigger, stronger, what she liked about them, ask her if they filled her up, ask how they treated her in bed, etc, ask her all this while you kiss her neck, lips, nipples, as you eat her pussy, as you fuck her as hard and passionately as you can.

I've got some weird advice. Maybe too weird lol. My ex and I use to play with a lot of different toys. I had a few penis extenders/sleeves I would put on and fuck her with. The smallest one added 3 inches to me. One time I bought a very long thick white cock sleeve online (also available in black) and the company accidentally sent me two. You could "accidentally on purpose" buy a black dildo or black cock sleeve and say they got the order wrong. Just aloofly play it off and say something like "Oh weird, they got my order wrong. They sent the wrong color. Well, I'm too lazy to send it back, let's try it out ;-)"
 
In my experience just the thought of dating is a good gauge. Somehow bring up dating and you can work it in somehow.

Typically I find that some women will be open to it, some will say they've dated black, but the ones who won't will be so over the top about not going there that it will turn into a long explanation.

You'll have an idea then.
 
Great advice guys, I am in a simular sutuation trying to open up my wife to the idea of black men sexually. I have to order netflix for sure..
 
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