Chastity provides me with a calming

[cuckboi206]

I am not sure if there are any other cuckolds who share this but I feel a calming when in chastity. I realize that there is nothing I can do to change my situation or satisfy myself so I surrender to the power that placed me in chastity. The best way I can describe this is a feeling of compliance and acceptance to my situation. Unable to masturbate I am more productive in my duties to my wife and her bull. I am wondering if there are any other cuckolds who also experience this?

 

[hotwife4bbc14]

Never had one myself but what you're saying makes sense

 

[RangerCuck]

I don't know that I'd call it a calming effect, but I sure stay focused on her pleasure a lot more. She knows this and that's why she keeps me locked up. I get rather frustrated after a few days once the cage goes back on after I've had an orgasm, in fact, but after that it does go back to being sort of resigned to this is the way it's going to be for a while, so learn to live with it. I don't consider that calming, though.

 

[cuckboi206]

Thank you Ranger Cuck. I believe you have correctly identified a better description of my emotions. The term "resigned to this way of life" is much more accurate. After my realization I am calm. Perhaps that's more accurate.

 

[HollyWorny]

Not I’m chastity but not able to cum.

I understand the calming feeling you get! I totally feel it and my GF totally sees it in me too.

 

[Mistertinycuck]

Never had one myself but what you're saying makes sense

I've never worn one either. And I never will. I have, at times, dabbled in the D/s world with a Dom and when he told me I wasn't allowed to touch myself or mastubate... I didn't. I obeyed him because he's Dom, I'm sub and that's what I'm supposed to do. if I wore one of those things it would remove my ability to touch myself, so obeying him wouldn't be free will. It would be ****** on me. If I proved to be disobedient or weak and touched myself without permission (a very disrespectful thing to do) then I would expect some form of punishment. I prefer not having those so I can prove to my Dom I have the respect and self discipline it takes to be a good sub.

I look at it similar to this: if you put the treat on the dog's nose and he doesn't eat it until you say it's ok, he's a good doggie. If you lock his treats up in the cupboard, he's just a regular dog who's locked out of his treats. I think wearing a cage is kind of the same.

That said... it's just my opinion. And I know these things provide a valuable service to some subs and Doms. I'll never look down on anyone for using them. I guess this is just a long winded way of saying that they aren't for me.

 

[Flcouple38]

I will say it calms hubby right down, he has even said it calms him down and has that affect. Sure he can get excited but limited, he also says it has calming affect over any cuck tendencies and other things. I think of it as shock collar for dogs.. I am sure some are different, but for him it is calming for sure when I cage him and sometimes he does himself.

 

[Samleo]

My chastity cage is definitely a calming "tool" and it promotes a feeling of acquiescence and acceptance of one's lot. It also encourages "cleaner thoughts' because if you get too aroused it can be downright painful in the retaining area!

 

[cuckboi206]

Well said

 

[Samleo]

I do not think our feelings are "9 - 5" "normal", but we are certainly not rare.