Bull's relationship with the cuck.

Discussion in 'Cuckold Forum' started by marriedcouple456, Sep 30, 2015.

  1. marriedcouple456

    marriedcouple456 Active Member

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    Should the husband get to know the bull before introducing him to the wife? Do any BBC bulls have a relationship with the husband outside of the bedroom? Thoughts?
     
  2. Worshypper

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    Friendship.
     
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  3. marriedcouple456

    marriedcouple456 Active Member

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    relationship=friendship. (just to clarify)
     
  4. Mrs.InCharge

    Mrs.InCharge Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Great post! So Stephen does all my background checks so he's the front line to meet and gauge my bulls. Often, I can determine if I like a bull by Stephens attitude about the bull.

    Twice now, Stephen and a bull have really hit it off friendship wise and those relationships fostered an exceedingly fantastic experience for everyone.
    They would have this team spirit between them based on what I enjoyed, what I didn't and generally made me the focus of both their attention (which I Loved!)

    This is what we always attempt to recreate each time I date
     
  5. dudesimon78

    dudesimon78 Well-Known Member

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    You are a very lucky lady.
     
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  6. Charles Hardwood

    Charles Hardwood Member Real Person

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    I think a level of friend ship is necessary depending on how the cuck and wife want the cuck to be perceived. If he wants to be viewed as week and worthless by comparison then the bull should do so to help with their fantasy. If he wants to be seen as a he is friend allowing the bull to screw his wife then it can go that way.
     
  7. marriedcouple456

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    I think I would prefer to have some sort of friendship with the bull. I would definitely feel more comfortable letting her play alone with a bill that has a friendship with me. I feel the bill would be more respectful of our marriage if he was somewhat part of our lives.
     
  8. marriedcouple456

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    My wife's former BBC lover contacted her a few years after we were married and commented that she still looks like a great fuck even after having kids. I did not handle the situation very well at the time but I am pretty sure he would have been a great bull. He was her first. Unfortunately, I sort of messed up their relationship so I don't think that will be happening anytime soon. But I am currently trying to apologize for my behavior towards him and hoping that he will still be interested in fucking my wife.

    On a side note I think that my initial behavior towards him could lead to some fun role-play dom fantasy in the bedroom :)
     
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  9. ChicagoBLK

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    Having a relationship is very important.
     
  10. jon taylor

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    Hubby gets along with all my bulls and he gets to know them a little to make sure I am good and safe
    a couple of them are his friend including Pussyman
     
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  11. Noreen

    Noreen Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    yes. i'd hate for there to be any tension. the only tension there should be is sexual tension!

    there's only ever been one occasion where a bull misread my husband. he regretted it very soonish.
     
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  12. bostonbean

    bostonbean Moderator Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Husband is in the union. It is husbans forman. He will never get laid off. Lol. Jk if he sees.this.
     
  13. Miamicouple

    Miamicouple Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    It's a must for me! The 3 of us need to have a friendship. And the closer they are as friends actually excites me more!
     
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  14. wahoosurfer

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    I read people very well and i "vet" all the bulls for my wife. She has no real desire to talk to them much beforehand(for the most part). I have become friends with a few regulars we play with and have gone for drinks or dinner with them. I always talk to them long enough to get a feel for them before we meet.
     
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  15. LeeandJen

    LeeandJen Member Gold Member Real Person

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    This so true! I think it is important that they have a good relationship. After all, there are three of us in the mix and it has to fulfill the needs and desires of all three to be a successful relationship. My favorite bull is now a close friend of both of us and we trust him fully when he introduces someone new to the relationship. :) Jen
     
  16. BethLuvsBBConly

    BethLuvsBBConly Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Cuck hubby has always been involved and many times met the guy first. Although my cuck is very submissive, he is my protector and has shown bulls the door if they try to mis-treat me.
     
  17. Traveler22310

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    I have become friends with two husbands of wives that I've been their Bull. Makes it even more erotic.
     
  18. 804Gentleman

    804Gentleman Active Member

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    Friendship and respect between the bull and hubby is a must. I rather know the husband on a very personal level, not just the wife. Usually we can all enjoy conversations via email and see what's on each others mind, playful banter, etc. And if the wife and I want to discuss some things that are just between us then we'll text by phone. I'm a confidant to both parties