We're down to two "finalists" that we're involved with and planning to go through with things this fall. In a few weeks, we'll get the ovulation timed right and ask our favorite. And if he turns it down, hope #2 agrees to our request to help us.
A number of you who have been there - couples and bulls - have been kind enough to share your thoughts and experiences which have helped us make sure this will be as wonderful a reality as it is a fantasy.
There is a sexual aspect to this but it's more than just that. Lots of couples who adopt or seek sperm donors want that "perfect" baby in terms of intellect and looks. We're not doing anything they aren't - except the fun part of making babies. We're not doing this because we think the white race needs to die out or some crazy submission desire (even though humanity will continue intermixing until the day there is one race left, our choice is about what WE want for us and our family).
We don't get those who think it's just some sexual thing. It's a lot more than just that. This is real and we're in a position where we can live with it. Or at least hope we are - but children are all about hope
If any of you - couples, bulls or someone who knows either - have some practical advice to share. Things like how to explain the children to others, how to handle the intended helper, how to handle black hair and many other practical thoughts, please share them. This is a major venture and all advice is needed so this goes right for everyone - us, children and the guys who give us these wonderful children.
A number of you who have been there - couples and bulls - have been kind enough to share your thoughts and experiences which have helped us make sure this will be as wonderful a reality as it is a fantasy.
There is a sexual aspect to this but it's more than just that. Lots of couples who adopt or seek sperm donors want that "perfect" baby in terms of intellect and looks. We're not doing anything they aren't - except the fun part of making babies. We're not doing this because we think the white race needs to die out or some crazy submission desire (even though humanity will continue intermixing until the day there is one race left, our choice is about what WE want for us and our family).
We don't get those who think it's just some sexual thing. It's a lot more than just that. This is real and we're in a position where we can live with it. Or at least hope we are - but children are all about hope
If any of you - couples, bulls or someone who knows either - have some practical advice to share. Things like how to explain the children to others, how to handle the intended helper, how to handle black hair and many other practical thoughts, please share them. This is a major venture and all advice is needed so this goes right for everyone - us, children and the guys who give us these wonderful children.