Bought wife a new Doc Johnson Realistic BBC Dildo - and she Loved it.

Trying to spice things up a bit more in bed - I thought I'd start searching for ways to turn the wife on. I knew she has some attraction to black guys - she mentioned it when we met. Shes never been with one before I'm quite sure. Wife had initially bought a black one about 15 years ago -- 7" length and about 5" girth . It always got me super hot when she used it -- as I knew it was a bit bigger than me (I'm about 6.5" and 5" girth). When I'd question her about how that dong feels and she always said it just feels so right and fills her up. She prefers it when I am in her, but sometimes she does want the toy. Once I discovered this forum, and reading about white wives using bbc dildos -- i started searching for one for her. A bigger one. During sex one night I told her I had a surprise coming in the mail for her and I showed her the one I bought. That really put her over the edge during sex. However, when it finally came in, she was a bit worried about it - and almost decided against it. This thing is heavy and it feels like a destroyer. She got super super hot and quickly told me I chose wisely.

When she was hot, I was getting pretty dirty with the talk trying to make it hot. Asking her if she loved that big black cock filling up her pussy. She didn't want to say that out loud. But nothing about it being black or huge. She noticed how hot I got when she started using it -- and we've used it at least three times together. I suspect she has used it once or twice when I'm not around -- I have a good feeling about it. I really want to get my fantasy going a bit more -- I want her to want that bbc and say it. but I think she might be too proper for that. A couple of times, I've been able to make her say black cock, but it's pretty rare -- and I don't want to harp on it too much, because it kind of breaks the mood -- and I don't want her to think I'm obsessed. Even though I privately am... She said she's cool with the toys, but all porn is out. Any suggestions on how to get her to get closer to where I am as far as the dirty talk and get her to really express how she feels about this new toy?
 
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I'd say your on the right track. If there is a football player or someone you know she thinks is good looking try to incorporate that into it while your fucking her with it. Tell her to just imagine that this is "insert name"'s big black cock fucking her and make sure she has her eyes closed and get her to say his name if she is feeling it. This worked for me once when I was getting her into it. She came really hard on the dildo!!
 
That's a great idea. I did find out she's used it multiple times without me. She disclosed it during sex. We've not been able to get the suction cup to work so well on the wall and we don't really have any good place in the bedroom to get her to mount it for riding -- but I'm hoping to see that happen soon.
 
Any suggestions on how to get her to get closer to where I am as far as the dirty talk and get her to really express how she feels about this new toy?
thanks for the info. Bought a black vibrator from CA exotics with just mild success so will try this one. On the suggestions side I found that my wife enjoyed videos from Blacked (you can get the 10min edits for free in the usual places). That would complement the new toy and let her explore her fantasies!
 
Hi
Just bought the same, it was a big step for us, i am only 5.5" there was a 6" one, would suggest that, if you are trying a dildo first time, but the look and feel are amazing with this one that you also have, ours vibrates also

How good is the vibration function? The one I bought was just 3 settings ranging from too low to too excessive in 1 click.
 
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