I guess my husband fits the conventionally accepted role of a cuckold in the sense he wants to see me have sex with another man. However he is an Alpha male and would take an extreme distaste in an attempt to be submitted by anyone who he "allowed" to have sex with me. I actually believe there would be violence. As long as I am being treated with respect, as he would be also, there would be no problem. So I guess if there are black guys who understand that not all "cuckolds" are submissive it could be a good thing for all concerned. Just my opinion of course.