Alot of men/women are oblivious, niece, and totay clueless about such things as your testimonies are showing but I assure you those in Touch with their raw ******* spirits and ******* magnetism can sense (with their observant eyes, ears, nose, and touch/skin) the sexual energy and vibe that other men and women ooze from their bodies. I don't have time to educate the un-enlightened on this as it is a Bull thing that we just feel it but it can be learned.
There is a lot written on this subject and I could teach an entire 5 day 8hr course on this but I don't have the time nor would I give up the secrets for free. Here are some things for you clueless individuals to start doing some homework on your own to investigate:
The body language of attraction:
http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/3673055
I know a lot about this, I've witnessed,experienced, and use it and it works 100% of the times in identifying these suppressed women who turn out to be BBC loving freaks and they always tell me it's liberating and who they always wanted to be but where afraid with their husbands of boyfriends once I unleash it from them.