Have to say my wife was not into gang events. More of a one on one.
Once we learned about the tuck in service where there was a quiet knock on the door. I would let him in. I would return to bed. He would take a shower. Then approach her side of the bed always by the windows. Slip in next to her. They would whisper. Quiet kisses exchanged. Lots of fore play. Then they would play under a sheet right next to me until he was drained for the night.
There was also a wake up service where I would spend the night waiting for that gentle knock on the door about five in the morning. Again a shower while I returned to bed to sleep. With the lights turned off he would approach my wife’s side of the bed. Lots of kissing (one of the most under rated activities there is. Again there were whispers and lots of for play.
There was a help with showers service. As well as a massage service. We also went boating on day trips.