Before the Internet - how did you meet other people into this... wife sharing lifestyle?
Before the Internet - how did you meet other people into this...
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My first time was with a GF at a different college before I met Angie. We went to see a movie called "Demon Seed". Laura and I both got turned-on by the movie. When it was over and the lights came on, we saw a classmate and his wife. They invited us to their apartment. We started drinking a bit and talking about sex. Before long, the ladies were nude and we were fucking each other's woman. I had my first black woman and Laura had her second man and first black man. We started swapping with them and soon with their friends. This went on for about a year until Laura's mom found cum-stained panties in the dirty clothes. Since Laura was 20 an still having to live at home, her parents were pretty much in a position to enforce a break-up.
I'll let Angie explain hers separately.
Rick
I'll let Angie explain hers separately.
Rick
It's interesting to hear younger people ask the "what did you do before internet" questions. My ******* was going to some social function at the state capital a few weekends ago and was wanting to use my car because it has GPS; I told her to use a road map, and she just looked at me so weird, like "what's a road map?". 
Back twenty years ago, when my wife and I were dating, we actually had face-to-face conversations, instead of texting and twittering ... lol. We did some 3-somes and swaps with our college friends we socialized with ... another strange word. We certainly didn't approach strangers, or have chatroom conversations with faceless people as we do today, so it did often require having an inner circle of friends and hangouts that catered to our interests, which at the time was partying.
I'm still amazed to this day as to how I somehow managed to work in studying and getting a college diploma out of all that.
Back twenty years ago, when my wife and I were dating, we actually had face-to-face conversations, instead of texting and twittering ... lol. We did some 3-somes and swaps with our college friends we socialized with ... another strange word. We certainly didn't approach strangers, or have chatroom conversations with faceless people as we do today, so it did often require having an inner circle of friends and hangouts that catered to our interests, which at the time was partying.
I'm still amazed to this day as to how I somehow managed to work in studying and getting a college diploma out of all that.
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There were also swinger contact magazines that Al and I, as well as my sister Jeanne, her BF J.D., and his brother Ron all put ads in.
Angie
Angie
WE WOULD PLAY A GAME WHERE ALL THE GUYS WOULD PUT THERE KEYS IN A BAG. AND THEN EACH PERSON WOULD TAKE A TURN PULL OUT A SET OF KEYS AND THEN YOU WOULD KISS THE WIFE OR HUBBY OF THE KEYS OWNER,,THIS ALL STARTED ONE NIGHT WITH ME AND MY HUBBY AND MY SISTER AND BROTHER IN LAW....AND IN TIME OTHER COUPLE WOULD JOIN IN AFTER A FEW MONTHS WE HAD 7 COUPLES THAT WOULD GET TOGETHER TO PLAY ...THEN IT WENT FROM JUST KISSING ,,TO IF SOMEONE PULL YOUR KEYS OUT YOU HAD TO TAKE OFF A PIECE OF CLOTHES OFF TILL YOU WERE NAKED ,,, THEN TO THE FIRST HUSBAND AND WIFE TO GET NAKED FIRST HAD TO HAVE SEX IN FRONT OF EVERYONE ,,,,FROM THERE IT WENT TO THE LAST GUY NAKED COULD PICK ANY WIFE TO GIVE HIM A BLOWJOB AND THE LAST WIFE NAKED COULD PICK ANY GUY TO EAT HER OUT,,,,, AND THEN ONE NIGHT SOMEONE SAID THE GUYS SHOULD PUT THERE KEYS IN A BAG AND EACH WIFES WOULD PULL OUT A SET OF KEYS AND SHE WOULD HAVE SEX WITH THE OWNER OF THE KEYS EVEN IF IT WAS HER HUSBAND OR NOT,,,,,,THAT HOW WE GOT NTO THE LIFESTYLE OVER 15 YEARS AGO......
I remember those mags. They worked quite well for me.
DeeDeeinCO
Female
Before the Internet I approached men or they approached me, in person.
We got started very young and met our first Black bull at an adult theatre in Passaic, NJ. The only option for porn movies before the internet, DVD's or VHS tapes. We also picked up Black men at urban parks, adult book stores and at nude beaches. And of course swinger mags once we had a place of our own.
averagewhite
Member
My first wife told me she wanted a separation. I moved out. Came back a week later on a Sunday morning to say hi and she was entertaining a black man and I was hurt and I cried and I got fucking hard as a rock. Hooked.
was he black?
I've almays felt more attraction by brown guys, with the only exception of my husband who is caucasian, with blonde hair and light eyes.
I had an only one black boyfriend before my husband (my other previous boyfriends were brown, not black).
I met him in my workplace, an office. It was after I broke up a bad relationship of 2 years with a cretin guy who was interested in me just for sex.
I fell in love with him due his gentelman behavior. Sex was great and even better was our coexistence. Unfortunately after almost 5 years together, our relationship began to wear down and we finally broke up.
By those years, I was working in the same place than Rick, who was going to be my husband and we developed an incredible friendship before we were a couple.
He knew my ex black boyfriend because they worked together for one year.
But since the first day my husband and me began our relationship, he always said me that he loved the fact that I had had a relationship with a black man.
The first time Rick and me had sex, he said me that he felt an immense pleasure because he was going to put his dick in the same pussy than a black man had put his great black cock. Even he asked me if my ex had ever cummed inside me. I told him that he used to get condoms but he had cummed inside my pussy in some occasions.
That was the beginning of my husband interracial fetish. And it was before the massive use of internet.
With my hubby, the best thing of all at first, was that I could reach an area of my sexuality that I didn't know. I felt free to be myself and express my emotions.That is so lovely. You remind my of my female friend in El Salvador
I was accustomed to make the love with my ex black boyfriend, his way to turned me on and the positions that he used to respond before the love. Despite my husband was handsome and he really excited me a lot, I wasn't able to reach my orgasms as easily as with my ex. He could notice it and asked me about it. I was sincere and I told him that I didn't know why but my ex made me cum more quickly. My husband didn't feel bad about it, on the contrary, he asked me what was my ex did to turned me on. I told that he used lick my nipples during several minutes before the fuck. It turned me on even more than the oral sex. I told him about some positions too. He took in count my experience with my ex and used it in our own benefit. In less than one week our sex became amazing.
My husband always said that my previous boyfriends were good for nothing, with the only exception of my black boyfriend who was a really first class male. He was thankful with him, because the sexual experience that my ex had given me, was what made us enjoy sex even better now.
Moreover, my husband felt a sensation of union with my ex. Like if he, my ex and me were just one. He felt that amazing sensation during the first months of our relationship when we had sex.
The simple fact that a black man had made me the love during almost 5 years, turned my hubby crazy of pleasure.
Of course my family knew about it! He was my boyfriend, we shared almost 5 years together, we loved each others, at lest at first.Your husband is a lucky man. My gf in El Salvador is also named Susana. She has been with a few women before. And she has not been with a black man yet, but she told me that she admires them
But nobody understand our relationship, in special due the stetics difference between us. Moreover our skin contrast, he was shorther and thinner than me, wore glasses almost all the time and was not handsome. According my friends opinions, (even my husband opinion at first) he looked some weak beside me. But it wasn't important for me, but the good way he treated me.
When our relationship was over and I met Rick, my husband, he wished me to tell him about my sex experience with my ex. I told him about some fucks and he turned on like crazy!
Hispanic with a white wife
sneakyhusband
Member
When I met my wife 28 years ago, she was getting fucked regularly by several of her male friends and a few of mine that knew her before I did. This activity continued all through our relationship and into our marriage so we didn't need the internet or magazines to find men. On the occasions that she wanted some strange cock, it was simply a matter of going to the bars and taking her pick.
