This thread is directed to the white married couples that actually do this. I know there is a lot of fantasy, and that's cool, but I want to hear from other couples that do this for real. What, if any, rituals/customs do you have? I'll start with us, today. First, wife asks permissions to spend night with her bull. We don't do the cuck thing (not that there is anything wrong with that, just not how we do it). I agree, as always, but it is part of the ritual: she has to ask. We have sex, but she asks me to use a condom. Says she needs sex to get ready, warmed up etc., but wants me to use a condom as her bull, well, you get the idea. I do not "have" to to use a condom with my wife but do it out of courtesy. No, he doesn't use a condom. Gulp. Then she cleans the house and makes a fire so I'll be warm. Good wife. Cooks a great dinner--southern comfort food: pork, black-eyed peas, etc. Tasty. She enjoys watching me eat it. Packs a portion to take for her bull for when he gets off of work. Asks me which of my beers he might like and takes my suggestion and packs that for him. I reassure her that I love her, always will, etc. She seems to need that from me. My custom after she leaves is to go to the gym and lift weights. This "lifestyle" has been good for my health. Has it for yours? I'll probably have to leave for work in the morning before she gets home. If I don't, she usually says she is too sore for sex. The last time I insisted, she bled. From little old me. Well, you can imagine. I now give her a few days to recover. So, my question, for those of you who actually do this, is what, if any, rituals/customs do you have?