View attachment 1096854 I'm a newbie to all this, but am learning through mistakes. My bf tied me facedown and put a metal oral gag in my mouth. He was smacking my ass and fucking me, heard me moaning, thought it was because of the smacking. I couldn't tell him the metal gag was too big for my mouth! Bloody painful and chipped couple of teeth!
When trying BDSM, you should have both a stop word and a stop sign, some sort of hand signal that lets the dominant partner know that you really want them to stop and that can be shown even when you are tied up. I like the American sign language signal for "I love you." It is the two middle fingers pointed down towards the palm and the two outer fingers and thumb pointed outward. The dominant partner should stop occasionally and ask if the submissive is doing alright. BDSM is not necessarily about causing the most pain, but demonstrating the most trust and trustworthiness in the relationship.
 
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