Where are you and how do you "hand pick" them. Just in case....
I can personally vouche for @Idowives0763 parties, and for him. He is classy, respectful, believes in consent and also has more experience than most others on this site or any other. Any woman that is considering his parties, just go through the screening process, it is worth it. I have attended a few of his parties, and everyone was really classy and nice. I have also recommended his parties to a few married women in the NY area, who were frustrated with trying to date on their own.