Back in the UK after many years away

Hello all, we have been to many years outside of England, so pleased to be home, been back a few months now and starting to realise what we have been missing. We have joined a swingers club, the first couple of times a little quiet, went to one of the "Black mans fan club" meetings and will be going again to that night.
Been a regular visitor to this site as a guest for a number of years, decided its time to join, time to see if anyone out there that fits what we are looking for!

We are a genuine couple looking for a very special gentleman.
A gentleman who is a Dom/Bull, a gentleman who will encourage her through his ability.

A gentleman who will also show her how a lady is treated.
It’s a fine line to tread, a sexual dominant bull yet a gentleman.

Do you open the door for a lady, do you pull her chair up for you when you take her out for dinner, then when you are at your table do you have her discretely remove her underwear for you?

Are you a dominant that will protect his lady at all times, do you know when play is safe or when to hold?

We are not interested in those who claim to be or those who want to be.

The gentleman who we seek knows the line we will be treading.

You will need to be patient and willing to chat, to find out her needs and desires and act upon them and push her boundaries further than she thought possible.

For the right man who we are looking for this could be the chance to have a very special woman as his buddy and a special couple as his friend.

Are you that special man we are looking for?
Aged between 36 and 60?
Is what we are asking for below you?

Dominant but not domineering
Attentive not inconsiderate
Confident but not cocky
Teacher not an instructor
Explorer not a spectator