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Well then, there's clearly 3 paths to pursue here...

1. keep talking with him about it, while also consistently reassuring him that you love him and will never leave him, but that this is a sexual longing that you really need satisfied. hope that he comes around.
2. accept that this is never going to happen, and try to be happy with what you have
3. cheat

Some hubbys do come around after time with #1. I've seen it happen.
So far, I haven't met a woman who can stick with #2. But then, I do associate with a bunch of kinky, horny, girls, lol.
I'm not an advocate of cheating, but if you've tried #1 for a long time (years) and its going nowhere then it may be your only option. I believe we all deserve to life our fullest life. Hopefully, we find a partner who is willing and able to help us along that path. But if not, we may have to take responsibility for our own lives and our own satisfaction.

A 4th option is to leave the marriage and find someone who supports your interracial desires. ;)
 
In addition to IR porn and using your extension, I would suggest being a bit more honest and direct (versus "gentle") about your desires. Perhaps something like...

"One of my biggest turn-ons is imagining you cumming with a hung black stud. I would love to see you experiencing that kind of extreme pleasure. And, I think it would bring us closer together because we’d share a very naughty, secret experience. A lot of couples do it. But if you don't want to do it, I understand, and we don't have to. You should also know: My fantasy is to see you with a black man, or as many black men as you desire, but I would never want to be with any other woman except you. I love you and I'm devoted to you and your pleasure.

I explain the rationale for being honest and direct here...
https://xhamster.com/posts/832174
I cannot get the link to work on X hamster is there another way to view the video. I am a member on there
 
Well then, there's clearly 3 paths to pursue here...

  1. keep talking with him about it, while also consistently reassuring him that you love him and will never leave him, but that this is a sexual longing that you really need satisfied. hope that he comes around.
  2. accept that this is never going to happen, and try to be happy with what you have
  3. cheat

Some hubbys do come around after time with #1. I've seen it happen.
So far, I haven't met a woman who can stick with #2. But then, I do associate with a bunch of kinky, horny, girls, lol.
I'm not an advocate of cheating, but if you've tried #1 for a long time (years) and its going nowhere then it may be your only option. I believe we all deserve to life our fullest life. Hopefully, we find a partner who is willing and able to help us along that path. But if not, we may have to take responsibility for our own lives and our own satisfaction.
I have been trying number 1 for over a year now... I am still hopeful.... Di
 
Hi Em.

It's been 14 months since the last update so I hope you still follow this thread.

All the while since the last post we've been using the big brown cock extension and I hardly ever put my little 4" in her, by design. I've been talking in her ear during sex with the extension about how much she likes big dick and over time I've gotten her sexual history bit by bit.

Its seems her first real bf had a very large dick. I think it kind of "set her sexual clock" so to speak, and there were a number of other big cocks and younger men (She's 58 now) in her past. It seems my instincts about her not getting as much pleasure from my small d were correct.
Since the last post we'd purchased the Hismith sex machine and several 8" + dildos including one fat black one. I strap her down to a workout bench and get the machine working the dildos in and out of her while I tell her how good big dick looks in her. The whole scene puts her over the moon.

Working from that foundation I've continued to tell her it's okay to be honest about her love of big cock, and how much she needed a bull with a big dick to provide it for her.

To make a year plus long story short. We did recently meet with a 34 yo Hispanic guy with a 9" dick. After two social meetings which revealed she did like him we ran into some ghosting on his part, which was very disappointing especially for her, because I think she'd developed a little crush on him as I had encouraged them to text each other.

We're not sure why he did that but after some time I encouraged her to reach out to him again which she did, and she was able to coax him back. After much sexy texting and flirting with her, I finally just sent him a text telling him to come over the next day. When it got that real she did get pretty nervous. But on the day champagne had calmed her nerves enough by the time he arrived.

We had a nice fire in the fireplace, nice music and drinks. After quite some time of what I could tell was nervous chatter from her, I stood up and said,

" Look what she's done to me." as I unzipped my pants and revealed a chastity device.

That broke the ice, and I suggested he show her his cock. When he flopped out that big stick she was enraptured. She slid over and taking his dick in hand they began kissing. Soon his dick was in her mouth and he was controlling her head as he slowly fucked her face. My small dick locked in the device dripped as I took pictures.

After a good amount of cock sucking we moved to the bedroom where the real fucking began. I watched straining in the chastity device and taking pictures as he controlled her body all over the bed. Sinking his fat 9" in and out of her as she moaned and came and came. This went on for at least 45 minutes until he finally blew all over her stomach and tits. Honestly that is the hottest sex I've ever seen in my life! My whole being was buzzing with a body mind and spirit high. It was amazing.

Being spent he got dressed and we walked him to the door where she kissed him on the lips as he was leaving. something I found super erotic.
We went back to the bedroom, she lay back on the bed and I commenced to eat her pussy like a hungry tiger for the next 30 minutes. Then I put my 4" d in her pussy. It was unreal how stretched and wet she was. It was an entirely different sensation and so hot to think a 9" cock had just stretched her hot hole. She was so loose and I'd been hard so long I couldn't cum which just left me on the edge, frustrated. It was totally amazing, and my body was quivering from it. Later I finished myself.

Her and her new FWB text'd constantly afterwards and he was so enamored with her and her pussy they agreed he'd be back three days later, which he was. With the Ice broken things were more relaxed but just as over the top hot the second time.

If things work out he'll be back again this weekend.

So while its not BBC, it is a great start. I'll think we'll get there in time.

Thanks again Em. And to anyone reading this in hopes of sharing their wife or gf, do what Em suggests. Be verbal, persistent but patient. You too may find yourself in a place like I have.

In closing I should also mention that after the first night her new FWB did his big cock magic on her pussy, she started sleeping in the other bedroom....
 
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