Asian gf is interested

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by dickdelish, Jun 13, 2012.

  1. dickdelish

    dickdelish New Member

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    but not 100% into it...

    We have a black dildo that she loves, especially to have in her mouth. She loves to show me how she sucks it and requests it in the bed. We have great sex and she is certainly scared to disrespect me by messing with another, but we have now got into the role playing and dirty talking about bbc.

    She is amazed by IR porn and the size of the huge bbc. She has even told me that she prefers to see the monster black cocks. She has hung out with black guys before in college but told me she never messed with them. Now the last few times we have played it has been with the addition of IR porn, while I pleasure her, but she is def watching it while I am in her. In some cases she is focused on the movie more. She is also comfortable talking dirty in regular situations about bbc or the notion of asians getting bbc. She is totally comfortable with it and we sometimes drink or smoke while watching. The black dildo is a bit big for her 8-9", while I am average and smaller than that. I have now introduced a vibrator ring on the dildo and she loved it while I ate her and the size was less of an issue. I made sure to bang her after so she can feel a difference.

    I am just a bit confused what to do next as she made it clear she doesnt want to have another guy besides me. I think she is also happy to do whatever she thinks pleases me, including all the kinky stuff above...

    any thoughts?
     
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  2. James Thomas

    James Thomas New Member

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    Tell her you want her to try black dick, tell her it wont upset you and it will turn you on. Find someone you trust and she will like and take it from there
     
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  3. beauandsu

    beauandsu Member

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    Let me know how it goes. My wife is curious, too, but hesitant to take that first step.
     
  4. dickdelish

    dickdelish New Member

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    Hey thanks,
    she has told me she isnt into messing with another person, so I am not sure how to get past the fantasy aspect and move forward...
    She prefers watching porn with bbc that is for sure.
     
  5. beauandsu

    beauandsu Member

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    James Thomas said:
    Tell her you want her to try black dick, tell her it wont upset you and it will turn you on. Find someone you trust and she will like and take it from there
    I am in same boat with dickdelish. I have a hot asian wife who loves sex, loves big cocks and is curious about bbc but has declined thus far to do it. I have already done what you (james thomas) have suggested and more but she is still hesitant. I am patient but persistent. Gradually I think I will meet a black bull I trust and introduce her to su and eventually it will happen. anyway, that is why i am here.
     
  6. dickdelish

    dickdelish New Member

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    Should I be scared I might lose her in the end?
     
  7. beauandsu

    beauandsu Member

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    if you love each other i don't think you have to worry about that but it is a possibility. actually it is a reason, one of several, that su gives me in telling me she doesn't want or doesnt think she ought to do it (go black). su told me, "what if i like it too much and only want black cock? what will you do then?" and "what if i only want black cock after and you don't satisfy me anymore or i only want black cock. what then? and "i don't think we should risk it. i might like it too much." "i know i will like it but i don't think you can handle me gettting all hot with big black cocks in me. i am afraid it will hurt you and hurt our marriage." so, at least su thinks its a possibility. what has your wife said along these lines?
     
  8. Deepindallas

    Deepindallas New Member

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    I think you should go with your gut, listen to her and let her make this decision on her own. This is a big decision but remember love is love, and sex is just sex. If you have love I don't think you will loose her over a test drive of BBC. The key is to listen to her and respect her wishes. On the other hand if she is curious there are several way in my opinion to go about it. Find someone to trade pic's with and if she likes that have her share her thoughts through email. Things can progress from there. The main point is that she is comfortable with it. And that's the whole battle! Good luck on this exciting adventure.
     
  9. beauandsu

    beauandsu Member

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    thank you deep. i think that is good advice and i intend to follow it
     
  10. dickdelish

    dickdelish New Member

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    updates:
    So she is now totally into watching IR porn, nothing else, she also is very much into role playing about bbc in her mouth and the idea of me letting her mess with one. She has continuously mentioned how she only wants me, and is happy with me, but on the other hand she tells me she will do whatever I say and whatever makes me happy...

    She is prepped, just not sure what to do now...