Just like with the girls, the younger studs get a lot more attention. At 44, you're younger than me, LOL. My former boss, who I still see occasionally, is now 47. The guy I'm seeing now (also black) is 59 and he's banging my brains out!
I am 64 and nearly all the women I share a bed with at 15 to 20 years or more younger than me. A few years ago I fucked a 19 year old, we still get together every now and then. So if you are sane and civil there are plenty of women that would like to wrap their pussy around your cock.