I've been the dom in our relationship since the beginning. After 15 years it became time for her to take some responsibility in the sexuality of our relationship, so she's been learning to dom me and it's finally happening. She's my dom, she chooses to be submissive, equal or dom to her black men based on how she feels and who they are. I'm only submissive to her. Her guys are either 1) her guys and I'm out of the picture or 2) buddies of mine who I'll toke up and play PS4 with a couple days later.
It started with her requesting I setup a bound-blindfolded - "Dark stranger" fantasy and later getting her dates with well endowed black men. Now she's in charge of the sex and I get to be the sub for a while. When she's gotten a handle on truly being dominant, she's got sub fantasies she still wants to fullfill at my hands. So we're both technically switches, we just take time in the order of years to shift.