Are cuck Hubbies Born or Made?

Discussion in 'Cuckold Forum' started by Dsoul, May 19, 2013.

  1. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I got a question from a cuck hubby two days ago who asked me this question:

    "Dear Master SHANGO, please help me out with this question. I'm a MWM, married to a sexy wife who I want to cuck me. I don't know why I want this, but I've wanted it for so long. Pls tell me, do you think white bois like me are submissive from birth, or do we get made this way somehow?"

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    Have any of you ever thought of wondering about such type of question before?
     
  2. Alanm

    Alanm Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Not sure, i would say made. I have always been somewhat submissive and timid so it was a natural transition to be a cuck although i cannot be called a true cuck as my wife has not taken a lover........yet.
     
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  3. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Get someone to come seduce her.
     
  4. bbcmilfhuntr

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    Thats a very unfair question you ask ..its like saying are bbc women born or made.. in all genetics you would have what some would say naturaly born to do things , and some learn by watching others ,but that doesn't mean that person wasn't born to do this ,everyones path is different ,,understanding and accepting your path is the real question .Think about all the women out there that possibly are naturally born to love and breed with bbcs ,that are into fake relationships to keep society,its just now becoming socially acceptable for women to have interracial babies.Ju,st like the bi situation ,its ok now for men to be openly and socially bi now and what do you see..interracial bi cpls.The truth don't lie ..numbers don't lie.. where does every teenage girl go on spring break ? To the beach ? its not for surfer boys ..What are making the women get on the dance floor at clubs ..that hot sexy song by a bbc ? how many men take the wives or gfs to clubs and watch them dance on bbc? So it could be fair to say interracial sex is born in us all , and its the society we live in that forces us to different ...we live in a society where ,we judge each other , look down ,,degrade..so people have no inner peace ,,fake on the outside ... real and depressed on the inside..some could easily say we are robots ,so those of us here are thinking outside the box..uncontrolled feelings ... the last of the real people
     
  5. jd2234irl

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    all white males are born cuckold, and like my self only realise it, when they see their wives been fucked by the superior black cock.
    without me realising it, i encourager my wife to fuck a black guy while on holidays 11 years ago, i thought i would like to see her been blacked, i didn't realise how powerful the sight would be, and i was drawn into the world of cuckolding, as if it was a drug.
    seen my wife been pleasured by these superior black guys was so so sexy, she screamed the place down, had some of the best sex ever she was converted straight away.
    it was a drug to us!! we craved it!! i had to source black cock for her!!
    my reward was to see pure sex at its best, and to have the pleasure of cleaning her freshly fucked pussy afterwards is mind blowing.
    with out it been mentioned i just knew my place, her cuckold!!
     
  6. udomlya

    udomlya Well-Known Member

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    This is a good question. I believe that voyeurism, masochism and a submissive personality all are likely traits for a cuckold. One can be born with a predisposition for these things, but how a person turns out in life depends on upbringing and experience along with personality tendencies. A lot of posts in "how did you get started" cuckold threads are from men who were cuckolded in their teens/early twenties and found it to be a sexual turn-on. Usually these guys come across as being submissive and voyeuristic, and often masochistic as well. The experience of being cuckolded, along with one's personal inclinations, can combine to produce a sexual turn-on. Watching or letting "his" woman get fucked by another man, who is better endowed and more skilled than he is, just hurts so good. Others have not been cuckolded yet, but fantasize about it. For a white cuckold, seeing "his" white woman taken by a well-hung black stud makes the scene hotter by playing the race card.

    When the woman is having sex with other men while her man remains faithful, there is a power differential in the relationship, with the woman having the upper hand. This is a D/s relationship which appeals to the cuckold's submissive nature. When another man with a longer and thicker cock enjoys filling her deeper and wider in places that the cuckold can never reach, and she obviously feels more pleasure being fucked by the other man, her cuckold feels a masochistic arousal, or is turned on because his wife is being fucked so well, or both.

    There is one interesting side effect, experienced by many or most cuckolds, which appears to result from feelings of submission and masochism. It seems that a man who is being openly cuckolded by his wife or gf *usually* can not last nearly as long during sex with her as he did before the cuckolding started. Often he will shoot after two or three strokes, every time he fucks her. By finishing so quickly, he is ensuring that she gets most or all of her satisfaction from the other man. Usually he can't help it, and if she even mentions the other guy while he is inside her, he shoots immediately. His super quick orgasm seems to be caused by the excitement and intimidation of being a secondary, submissive lover to his cuckoldress, knowing that the other guy is fucking her and knowing that she loves it.

    Of course there are exceptions. Most guys want to watch, but some would rather not. Some get a masochistic rush from being outperformed by the other man, while others are just happy that she is getting the good sex. For instance maybe she has a higher sex drive than her partner, who is both willing to share and motivated to see her sexually satisfied. There are all sorts of variations, but from what I have seen, more often than not a willing cuckold/wittol is sexually motivated by the things mentioned earlier. The short answer is that cuckolds are both born and made. They are born with likes/dislikes and with real (or imagined) physical shortcomings, *and* they are made by experience and conditioning. All in my opinion of course. Feedback about all of this would be appreciated.
     
  7. rocuck

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    I agree with the excellent response of udomlya. However, I would like to point out that there do not seem to be many, if any, black men who are cuckolds. The sissy boy variant is almost always with a white boy and when people talk about interracial couples they usually mean black men and white women. My unscientific opinion is that white men are probably hard wired to be cuckolds and black men are hard wired to be alpha men and to enjoy taking the white women. Circumstances then are needed to bring the basic natures of white boys and black men out into the open. I suspect it may be different for women and they simply want to be with the better man. This will be the black man in most cases unless there is so much social pressure on them that they suppress the normal and natural urge they have to cuckold the white guy and try and seduce the black man.
    Of course, this is my opinion but I think there are some obvious facts to back it up.
     
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  8. Threedecadecuck

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    I believe that cucks are born. They know early in life that they want sex so badly, but they do little to get any. Cucks are boys who grow up respecting other boys who are Dom. Cucks grow up and date girls and women who love sex and would rather see their women fucked than fuck them. Cucks are boys who grow up with an appreciation for other boys and men's cocks. It is obvious to those who know what to look for. I know it has been obvious to everyone who has ever met me.
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  9. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    Well, it seems the majority of responses, here, indicate racial implications when talking about cuckolding and that simply isn't the case. Race has nothing to do with any man's qualification as a cuckold ... a cuckold is a married man who's wife has sex with other men ... period! Whether the married man knows she is fucking other men or doesn't know she's fucking other men ... whether he's encouraging her to fuck other men or not encouraging her to fuck other men, makes no difference. If she's married and fucking other men, her husband is a cuckold. Could be a black man she's fucking, or a white man she's fucking, or the man on the moon.

    I would think that beta males would more likely be candidates for cuckolds than alpha males, but actually, when women cheat on their husbands, its simply because they are usually not happy at home or because she's doing what her husband has asked her to do. So alpha males are just as susceptable to having a cheating wife as any other man. And, black men can most definitely be cuckolds ... ask the black men in this forum if any of them have ever fucked a married black woman ... I bet there are several black men, here, that will admit to doing just that ... THAT would make that other black man a cuckold. Only difference, however, is black men tend not to tolerate a cheating woman like a white man; his first instinct is to kill or retaliate the other black man and then beat the holy crap out of his cheating woman. Happens all the time ... watch & read the news. ;)
     
  10. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Good to know, white boi.
     
  11. Borncuckold

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    No question some are born. Those with little dicks like myself. Several surveys have shown that men with small testicles make better dads, something typical of cuckold males in nature. They are designed to raise offspring not make them. Our small penis and little balls are indicators of our design intention.
     
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  12. cuckyboy69

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    I think some are born that way but many can be made. It takes a patient, skillful wife or bull to make a cuck.
     
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  13. Sarah Adams

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    MADE! Because they are watching nothing but interracial porn these days, and they all want to see a BBC in their wife.
     
  14. SanDiegoPervySage

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  15. RandC

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    It's more of a natural evolution in my opinion...my husband knows how his dick compared to other guys and he just thought I might enjoy responding to a more "blessed" man for a change...and I thank him everyday for sharing me!
     
  16. spin419

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    much truth, I think, and well-expressed.
     
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  17. AllAmericanWife

    AllAmericanWife Well-Known Member

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    I don't know. Made I guess. My Hubby had a very strong mother who he idealized. He luvs porn actresses and they, by definition, have sex with more than one partner. I was, and continue to be, more sexually experienced than him. I think a combination of all this puts the power in our relationship in my hands. That's why I sleep with who I want, and he luvs it!:lips::qos:
     
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  18. cvacuck

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    I think it's about sperm competition...I think that gives men a libido boost and is what makes us turned on by it - cucks and bulls alike.
     
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  19. Jay123

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    Husband here
    Made for me. I grew up seeing loads of porn
     
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  20. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    The idea of becoming a certified cuck hubby is something that has always fettered in the back of most white husband's minds. I won't say that it's born, but rather it's a tic that's always in existent in plenty of husband's minds, and there merely await an erotic stimuli to bring it out to the forefront.

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