Any White Guys into this lifestyle actually buff, ripped, in-shape, outgoing

and have normal sized dicks? You'd get the impression from this site that they are all submissive, twink-ish, or out of shape and have small dicks. Just wondering if you experienced people have ever known fairly big, muscle guys and/or type-A personality white guys in this lifestyle?
Of course! Now that I'm older and can't perform as I once did, I'm glad to give my woman the chance to be totally satisfied. I'm still handsome and fit, but I'm honest with myself. I am of average or more size and by no means a wimp. I'd love to be 20 years younger, but I'm not. I just don't want her to want for anything. A lot of that BS about cucks and wimps is just that, BS.