I guess that we are fortunate in that we do not have to hide our lifestyle. Everyone who knows us knows about our relationship and that I have other lovers. I have had sex with most of the men my husband works with, and have for years now. My husband and I have both always said that when it comes to sex, "That is what other men are for."
Before I met my husband, I had already been with two men that he was working with and still works with. My husband works for a small firm with 11 other men. Each of the men my husband works with, other than one of them, have been with me and the receptionist at my husband's office several times over.
My mom-in-law asked me, shortly after me and my husband started dating, if my husband had shared me yet. I was kind of taken back by her question, but I told her that he had shared me. She responded by saying that it was only a matter of time, and that even her own husband had been with my husband's ex-wife numerous times.
I have also been fortunate to have been able to have sex with my husband's *******'s biological ******* and his youngest *******'s biological *******. Both of my husband's kid's biological fathers are well built and well hung. It is easy to see why my husband's ex-wife chose to have children fathered by them.
I have been with more married men than I can count. And what I have discovered is that the married men who fuck around rarely ever have erection problems, or problems lasting, or cumming multiple times. Another thing that I have noticed is that the husbands who allow their wives to fuck around often do have erection problems.
My husband's oldest ******* is married to my *******, and she has Black lovers she sees on the side. Recently my ******* and I were talking and she admitted to me that her husband, my husband's *******, has been having a lot of trouble achieving an erection and keeping it long enough to have intercourse, successfully. And he's only 28 years old.
To me a "real man" is a man who has a strong erection before even removing his pants to fuck me. A "real man" is a man who has the stamina to last long enough for me to get off at least twice. A "real man" is a man that other men want to watch as he fucks another or other women. That is a REAL MAN.
I believe that once you come to the conclusion that you enjoy watching another man, or other men, fuck your wife, you are giving up your "guy card." Real men want their cock sucked. Real men have big cocks. Real men are the men our husbands look for on Craigslist to fuck us.
A man's cock gets bigger the more sex he has. I know this to be a fact. A lot of men that I have been fucking for years seem to just get longer and thicker the longer I know them. My main boyfriend could barely last 15 minutes when he and I stated fucking. Six years later he is not only longer and thicker than he used to be, but he lasts as long as I need him to.
My husband used to be nick named "The Energizer Bunny." Now my husband is smaller than when I met him, and he takes forever to get almost erect, then he cums in seconds. I have noticed that the more men I have been with, the less my husband has been needed, for sex. And with this being the case, the body reacts in unison.
On the other hand, when me and my husband first got together, he told me that the more men I had sex with, the looser I would get and the more cock I would be able to take. When me and my husband first met, men who had 7" were pretty big. Now I take men who are 9" and bigger with ease.
The one thing that husbands have to understand is that the more men we have sex with, who have bigger cocks, the more we are going to need bigger cocks to be able to truly enjoy sex. We come to expect men to be bigger cocked and to last long enough to get us off a couple times, at least.
When I first saw my husband naked, I saw the smallest penis I had ever seen, in real life, but I liked sex with him. Now . . . my husband can't get or keep it up. And I don't really care. I have other men who can and do get and keep it up for me. Again, sex is "what other men are for."