Anticipation Versus Surprise

I recently heard of a white woman who wanted to initiate a sexual relationship with a black male business associate. She hoped to "knock his socks off" by unexpectedly greeting him wearing very little lace.

I wonder if such an out-of-the-blue "here's my pussy" surprise would be more exciting for the man ---- Or would it be more fun for him to know in advance and anticipate what was to happen with new white womanflesh?

Any opinions?


Real Person
If it is me that is getting the pussy then I much prefer the teasing and anticipation of maybe getting something or getting something wild and new.

But, I also love her coming home and surprising me with something she did with someone. Makes me rock hard every time.