Anal and pain

Another way to see things - worked for me but I am not saying it s for everyone - is to develop a positive attitude and welcome pain as part of it all sometimes, the mix of feelings can really spice things and with time it just feels « right » so to speak
This is so true, the pleasure-pain part is so much of our female experience with our Men. But in a good way too and anal is certainly one of them.
 
I like the initial disconfort, it masks the massive anal orgasms I have. Then when it happens my toes curl and I loose my breath in the amazing release! Of course it took about five years to get to that point too.
 
I just posted something similar in another thread, but this is stuff people should know. I went straight to the source and asked some gay guy friends of mine. Also took some adult sex-ed classes, and this is what works best. There's plenty of info on the topic, so don't be afraid to do your research.

Aside from lube, and relaxing...
Start with a finger, be gentle and work it.
Also start in the spoon position and ease yourself back on his penis. If you have a cuck with a small white dick, you can use him to practice on. This is the one thing white dicks can be used for.


Practice: like...every day this week, then whenever you masturbate.
. Practice with a small butt plug too. You can get these for like $10-15 at a local porn store.

There's also different high-quality toys/dildos from websites that tell you how big their toys are, check the diameter of the toy. bad-dragon.com has some interesting toys with good sizes. Believe me , it's worth the money for a quality toy. For anal play use something long and skinny because you can get longer strokes out of it. Just don't be like one of those people who gets the biggest thing they see because you'll never use it.

I feel like <1" diameter is a good starting thickness.

I'm using a toy around 2.5" diameter and going about 9" deep but it took practice to get there. Yes I am an anal whore, thank you for noticing (lol). It's really fun to explore once you get into it and if you do it right.

Be careful, have fun, and take it slowly and gradually increase the size. Whatever you do don't just jam something huge up there or let anyone go ahead and furiously fuck you in the ass. People get hurt and get anal tears that don't go away.
 
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